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fingering question

is it supposed to hurt the first time you get fingered? i'm not even sure if it felt good because i think it hurt a bit and i guess it was because i'm not used to it and its the first time? :redface:

Reply 1

Anonymous #1

does it being gentle or a little fast make any difference?

Reply 2

Anonymous #2

try a different position too if it hurts. my first time hurt but then i moved onto my front, facing away from the guy, and relaxed a lot more so that it stopped hurting. it might not be the most fun way, but it gets you used to it and it'll be painless from then on.

Reply 3

Soul Rebel

tell him to cut his finger nails.

Reply 4

ßlαcksωαn

Anonymous

is it supposed to hurt the first time you get fingered? i'm not even sure if it felt good because i think it hurt a bit and i guess it was because i'm not used to it and its the first time? :redface:

Have you done it yourself before?

Reply 5

pumpkin7

hmm.. if you aren't at all 'turned on' and you are pretty dry, then yeah.. it's going to hurt.. try kissing and stuff first to uh 'get the juices flowing'... lol.

Reply 6

Soul Rebel

pumpkin7

try kissing and stuff first to uh 'get the juices flowing'... lol.

Reply 7

Anonymous #3

Anonymous

is it supposed to hurt the first time you get fingered? i'm not even sure if it felt good because i think it hurt a bit and i guess it was because i'm not used to it and its the first time? :redface:

If it hurts, chances are he was too rough/fast. The skin down there is very delicate, after all...!

Reply 8

pumpkin7

Anonymous

If it hurts, chances are he was too rough/fast. The skin down there is very delicate, after all...!

yeah but not that delicate as to, you know, be able to give birth...

Reply 9

h82think

Anonymous

is it supposed to hurt the first time you get fingered? i'm not even sure if it felt good because i think it hurt a bit and i guess it was because i'm not used to it and its the first time? :redface:

It hurt me the first few times- but after it was great!

Reply 10

gRaDiUs

pumpkin7

hmm.. if you aren't at all 'turned on' and you are pretty dry, then yeah.. it's going to hurt.. try kissing and stuff first to uh 'get the juices flowing'... lol.

flowing? i saw that in a porn film once, it wasn't very nice, and the plot was sub-par at best, no character development, many plot holes, etc, but i only ever watch the first 30 mins

but yea, just tell him to chillout and take it easy and that its not a scratch and win

apprantly frequent use of the ipod wheel improves dexterity lol, but then again, FHM isn't exactly the source of all sexual know-how

Reply 11

Anonymous #4

When you say "fingered", what do you mean? Do you mean ... fingers inside? If so, then yeah, I imagine it's pretty normal to hurt a bit the first few times because of your hymen. It hurt me, but that meant that when I had sex for the first time it didn't hurt at all!

Reply 12

xoi

Anonymous

how high up is the hymen? does fingering usually break it?

Reply 13

Angelil

Tell him not to be so rough :biggrin:

Even now my boyfriend still gets a bit 'overenthusiastic' and I have to get him to be a bit gentler, lol...and we've been together nearly 2.5 years now :redface:

Reply 14

xoi

Reply 15

Zoecb

HYMEN.

Yes, it probably will hurt.

Reply 16

username94219

Ummm, it aint suppose to hurt. Try to relax abit n etc n things might improve tht way. Tensing up and being dry will make it uncomfortable.

Hope tht helps,

GD