The Student Room Group

Reply 1

tell him what you have told us, if that doesnt work, forget him, play the field, for every **** there are at least 5 guys who are genuinely nice, cool and honest blokes.

he seems a bit devious to me, be careful

Reply 2

I don't like the sound of him. I don't think you're going to do yourself any favours by attempting to keep this going.

Reply 3

Tell him how you feel and explain to him the way you feel. Tell him you don't mind him having friends who are girls, just you have to be first.
If he doesn't understand that, then find someone who appreciates you as you deserve.

Reply 4

Argh ive been in a similar situation myself, to be honest the jealousy just eats away at you, and its difficult if not impossible to get over....if he wont stop seeing her even after you have told him your concerns, he is really not worth carrying on with....especially if he lies to you about it, get out before you get even more hurt
*hugs*

Reply 5

Tell him to change his mobile number, and not pass the new one on to the other girl...makes sense in my books

Reply 6

Just talk to him, I'm sure he will understand...afterall if its affect you then he should listen

Reply 7

tell him everything and if he carries on talking to her then get out of the relationship. I am in the same situation at the moment. My bf cheated on me for 6months of are 3year relationship but they still text and phone eachother of which ive only recently found out. I've told him to cut her out of his life completely or im walking and he has 1 week to do it. I'm doing it for my self-respect becz i'm not going to be messed around again. Hope things work/ed out of you in the end.

Reply 8

This sounds harsh but anything he did with that girl while he wasnt with you is none of your business. What he chooses to do in other relatationships when your not with him is up to him.

In any case he sounds like he's being insensative of your feelings, tell him to get a new number or cut contact with her, tell him how you feel. If he doesnt then it really shows how much he cares for you.