To be honest, I'd be a little worried if a new boyfriend didn't want to have sex with me straight away! I'm not saying I would or wouldn't let that happen, just that I'd be surprised if nothing was said.
If you're constantly falling for the wrong sort of men, you should maybe have a word with some of your close friends. By now, they should be able to tell if a potential guy you're interested in is just like all of the others you've dated, and warn you off him.
I think some people end up forming a certain 'type' in their head, and only go for people who fit it. Problem is, if your type is a bit of a loser. Don't only go after men who tick certain boxes, because chances are, you'll realise those aren't the boxes you actually care about.
I wouldn't ordinarily advise getting your friends to pick any potential love matches, but if you're not great at discerning the good guys from the scum, a little bit of help in the beginning isn't a bad thing. Your friends love you and know you, and they're not going to push you into a relationship with a jackass.
And don't worry - the right guy will come along eventually. It's not necessarily a great thing having a proper boyfriend, anyway. I've recently fallen in love with the most wonderful man ever, which has completely screwed up my plans to be an independant career woman when I graduate in June. Instead of looking forward to starting an amazing job away from here, I'm now kicking myself every single day for not applying for an amazing job here where he lives. I just didn't plan to fall in love...
Being single has its advantages. Enjoy it while you can!
