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Concert problem

Theres this lad from my high school who I don't see anymore. I think hes having a rough time at a different sixth form. He may or may not be gay. Problem is I don't think he has many mates. He has two tickets to Girls Aloud and has invited me on msn. I would feel bad saying no, the guy has no one else. At the same time Im a different person to the one who got along with him in high school. I was more mates with his girl mate at the time. He likes Girls Aloud, I'm more Maximo Park/ Arctic Monkeys. Advice please - should I go or not

Reply 1

Llamaaa

yes, be the nice guy and go with him, since he has nobody else. It's only one night, and maybe if he sees that you've changed he will find someone else to invite next time.

Reply 2

IzzTheGreat

helenkr

yes, be the nice guy and go with him, since he has nobody else. It's only one night, and maybe if he sees that you've changed he will find someone else to invite next time.

You sound like you're sympathetic to his problem. You never know, you might find out you have more in common than you realised and you might have a really good time.

Reply 3

Trigger

you should def go, whats the worst that could happen? its always good to have more mates

Reply 4

evil groove

The issue's not really whether you like the band; it's nice surely that he thought of you to invite. You don't know for sure that he didn't have anyone else in mind. Go! It'll be a laugh. Don't think about your relationship or feelings too much, just have a good time. :smile:

Reply 5

Leonidas

Yeah just go, even if you don't enjoy the show, you will enjoy his company and he will be very grateful :smile:

Reply 6

AJ-1

if a guy mate of mind asked me to go to a girls aloud concert, i would look at them and raise my eyebrow, whether its a best mate or not. Yeh the gyals might be fit, but its more of a thing gyals would go to see, or a gf and bf, not two bois together. Tell him to take a girl. And when you say he may or not be gay, is it the fact he has girls aloud tickets you think he is gay? maybe he justs wants you to go for a laugh because there will be other gyals at the concert or something. Personally i would say no becasue i would find it a little strange. If it was something like arctic monkeys, then i would say GO!!!, but gyals alound is a tad gyalie!

Reply 7

rosetinted

Aw poor lad. Just go and suffer the sucky music for a few hours, it'll only kill a few brain cells.

Reply 8

fakeplasticsmee

Ok spell it 'girls' and 'boys' and I'd take the time to read the post.

And so what if he's a guy that likes something 'gyalie' doesn't mean he won't be good company for a night out.

Reply 9

silverbolt

hes going (willingly) to girls aloud and your still "wondering" if hes gay? lol

yeah do go with him your company might cheer him up if hes having a bad time of it.