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In love after how long?

Two difficult questions for you lot.
1) how long did it take you to fall in love
2) your own definition of being in love

Happy head scratching... :p:

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Reply 1

coldplasma

I've never been in love.

At least, not in the sense that she'd be the most important thing in my life. Haven't found that one yet :p:

Reply 2

WokSz

It took me about 1.5 months.

Reply 3

Talya

I'm going to say I fell in love the moment I saw my boyfriend.

I did NOT know this at the time, because I'd never felt that way before. But I pursued him until he went out with me and seeing as I hadn't met him before, something must have made me do that!

You can't define being in love :smile:

Reply 4

Angelil

With my current boyfriend, he told me he loved me after a week (and no, it wasn't to get me into bed...not a feasible possibility at that time). And it didn't feel at all over the top or false...it was and is utterly sincere, and I felt and still feel the same. We've now been together for over two years.

As for my definition of being in love...hmm. It's difficult to define because relationships evolve so subtly and so much. I'd say it's just the general feeling of just wanting to be with them all the time, not being able to imagine your life without them. It's the pleasure of talking to them about the little things, even if you've nothing better to say than what you had for tea, and just all the everyday stuff - cooking together, reading in bed together, watching TV together...it brings you closer.

Reply 5

Vohamanah

Same as Angelil, he said he loved me after a week and I believed him (and I loved him too)

But I'm afraid I can't tackle a definition :s-smilie:

Reply 6

Ice_Queen

Love at first sight.

Being in love is undefineable, and is different for everyone. For me, it's like floating on air, and having that feeling in your chest whenever you see your loved one.

Reply 7

jessbates1

1) It took me and my bf a year to get together because of various things (other friends liking him etc) so finally when we did get together it happened almost instantly. We had been good friends before and just wanted to be together so badly!I think i loved him before we even got together.

2)I think, for me, to be in love with someone means that you don't want to fall asleep because you don't want to miss a second of their company and when you wake up in the morning you feel that that day and the rest of the days after will be better because of that person. You want to give your entire life and share everything with them. when you see them hurting it breaks your heart. You feel like you could tell them anything and everything because their not just your bf/gf but your best friend. The intimacy and clossness you share with them makes your heart beat faster and you don't have to say a word because they know what your thinking!

Im sorry very soppy i know!hehe!

x

Reply 8

jessbates1

Also i think its the idea of not being able to imagine your life without them and wanting to be with them all the time. I've been with my bf for 3years almost and i feel so lucky to feel this way and that he feels the same!yay! :biggrin:

Reply 9

KDG

1)i dont think everyone is the same, i dont think i can fall in love, ive been with my girlfriend for well over a year and a moving in with her soon but certainly wouldnt say i love her. But other people are completely different

2)again im not really sure. i think it may be something that girls feel and most boys just agree with them as its easier that way

Reply 10

Llamaaa

1) At first sight there was kind of love, then at first conversation there was true love

2) for me, it's knowing that I couldn't face my life without him. It's butterflies in the stomach everytime we talk and counting the days until we'll next be together (Long distance at the moment). Also it's sitting across from him and just watching him (thankfully he doesn't mind). He just makes my life complete.

This is after 2 years. We are engaged.

Reply 11

SFC_FOREVER!

It took me 3 months, 2 weeks, 4 days, 13 hours, 28 seconds and 15 miliseconds.

I counted.

Reply 12

dita_parlo

I knew I loved him the moment I saw him... I knew I loved him because we slept together the first night we met each other, and I didn't think he would call me back but he did... He knew he loved me when I started quoting Pulp Fiction and From Dusk Till Dawn at him.

Reply 13

pumpkin7

^^^
you're a funny guy.

my current boyfriend said it to me after 3weeks.. again NOT in bed.

i don't think you can define it too well either.

Reply 14

h82think

1) It came naturally and to be honest I did not notice- I sort of slowly fell (sounds cheesy)

2) Having that warm happy feeling inside when ever you see/think about them

Reply 15

*starry_eyed_*

I reckon in all honesty I fell in love with my boyfriend about a month after getting together. :love:

Reply 16

suicidal_dream

i fell in love within a week of meeting him. something clicked, which surprised me as my previous boyfriend treated me really badly and cheated on me so i wasnt even expecting it.

my boyfriend says he feel in love with me from the first time he saw me.

Reply 17

Yellowmarshmellow

I've never been in love with someone i've gone out with but i've been in love (kind of still am) with someone else... i guess it's when you can't imagine your life without them, thinking about them constantly, wanting to be with them every second of the day, missing them when they're gone, butterflies when thinking about them etc...for me personally love sucks cos it hurts so much and after reading people say how their bfs told them they loved them from the moment they saw them etc i hope that i find someone like that someday..