I told one night stand I don't like kissing, is that why he acted distant after?

I met a cute guy in a club and we went back to his place. We really clicked and he was so affectionate, kept calling me beautiful, sexy etc. rubbing me. He was pretty drunk so he wasn't able to get hard so that we could have sex, he said he was embarrassed about this. We did foreplay though like he fingered me but we started kissing and I told him I'm not a big fan of it, and it's nothing against him. After that we had a really nice conversation got along so well but I finally decided to give the kissing a chance and kissed him on the lips twice and told him 'come here' and he kept saying 'I thought you don't like kissing' then stopped being as affectionate after that. I also asked him to finger me again and he wouldn't. The next morning it was like he was a different person. He seemed pretty distant, subdued and didn't really look at me much, just nowhere near as affectionate as the night before. I sent him texts afterwards and he didn't reply. Can anyone think of what I did to put him off and why he acted like that?

Reply 1

danr2

you probably made him think he had a very bad odor :biggrin:

Reply 2

Profesh

He made the first move, correct?

Reply 3

Anonymous #2

Why don't you like kissing?

Reply 4

Anonymous #3

Original post by Anonymous

Why don't you like kissing?

I dont like kissing either

Reply 5

Zarek

Standard alcohol fuelled ons risk I suppose. He didnt feel the same in the sober light of day. Perhaps he was a bit offended by the kissing ban too. Put it down to experience.

Reply 6

San pellegrino

He just wasn't in to you,probs the alcohol that kept him going

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

Original post by Zarek

Standard alcohol fuelled ons risk I suppose. He didnt feel the same in the sober light of day. Perhaps he was a bit offended by the kissing ban too. Put it down to experience.

I started hitting him to wake him up because he wouldn't wake up when I said/shouted his name. Could that have pissed him off? He looked and was really tired. When I'm drunk I can still tell if I like a guy or not so I just find it confusing.

Reply 8

Anonymous #1

Original post by Profesh

He made the first move, correct?

To kiss me?

Reply 9

Zarek

[QUOTE=Anonymous;61903035]I started hitting him to wake him up because he wouldn't wake up when I said/shouted his name. Could that have pissed him off? He looked and was really tired. When I'm drunk I can still tell if I like a guy or not so I just find it confusing.Too much, too soon. Next time just give the guy your number.

Reply 10

Zechs

Why would you be making out with someone and then say something negative like "I don't like kissing" pretty silly on your part if you really like him, makes no sense to me.

Reply 11

Anonymous #1

Original post by Zarek

Too much, too soon. Next time just give the guy your number.

Are you referring to hitting/aggressively tapping him as being too much?

Reply 12

Profesh

Original post by Anonymous

To kiss me?

To initiate conversation.

Reply 13

Anonymous #1

Original post by Profesh

To initiate conversation.

I think yeah

Reply 14

Profesh

Original post by Anonymous

I think yeah

Did he appear hesitant at all?

Reply 15

Petro_99

It was a one night stand... Does it really matter?

Reply 16

Anonymous #1

Original post by Profesh

Did he appear hesitant at all?

Not really

Reply 17

karl pilkington

Why don;t you like kissing as it is too intimate for a ons. Maybe you bruised his ego by saying you don't like kissing ir he was embarrassed by his lack of boner