Why are guys so sexual towards me

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Okay i have this problem, I'm a Muslim girl and wear the Hijab. I've dated guys in the past but I'm over that now, in fact i wear the Abaya now. But the problem is I get hit on by so many guys it does my head in or i get stared at in the streets by strangers. Not so much now that I wear an Abaya but when i do they act so sexual towards me and I'm just like 'erghh do1'

I actually am trying to change but its hard when guys are constantly flirting with me. Sometimes if i get along with the guy and hes good looking i get tempted and i don't want that to happen.

How do i make them stop.
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Okay i have this problem, I'm a Muslim girl and wear the Hijab. I've dated guys in the past but I'm over that now, in fact i wear the Abaya now. But the problem is I get hit on by so many guys it does my head in or i get stared at in the streets by strangers. Not so much now that I wear an Abaya but when i do they act so sexual towards me and I'm just like 'erghh do1'

I actually am trying to change but its hard when guys are constantly flirting with me. Sometimes if i get along with the guy and hes good looking i get tempted and i don't want that to happen.

How do i make them stop.
In a way this sounds like you're blaming guys for your own weakness :iiam:
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In a way this sounds like you're blaming guys for your own weakness :iiam:
no im asking how do i get a guy to not be pervy from the start
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Make yourself look clapped. Then no one will look at you.
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no im asking how do i get a guy to not be pervy from the start
Well, having Googled what an abaya is, possibly wearing something else would be a better idea; they're not unattractive. Also they make it clear that you're off-limits, which will make a lot of men want to try and sway you.

So dress and act normal, don't draw attention to being 'off-limits.'
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Well, having Googled what an abaya is, possibly wearing something else would be a better idea; they're not unattractive. Also they make it clear that you're off-limits, which will make a lot of men want to try and sway you.

So dress and act normal, don't draw attention to being 'off-limits.'
i get hit on even more with it off where guys can see my figure but thanks for the advice
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Abayas actually go look good lol :yy:
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You probably wear too much makeup
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i get hit on even more with it off where guys can see my figure but thanks for the advice
In that case, eat all of the biscuits and cakes and ****.

Anyway, it sounds like you enjoy the attention on some level, even if you want to abstain from reciprocating. Surely it's better to be at risk of entering into a relationship with someone who you can grow with than to be sat there constantly thinking 'MUST. AVOID. MEN.'
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You probably wear too much makeup
sometimes i dont even wear make up, most of the time its minimal
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hijab + makeup.. = you're looking for attention imo
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hijab + makeup.. = you're looking for attention imo
its literally just a bit of mascara
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Okay i have this problem, I'm a Muslim girl and wear the Hijab. I've dated guys in the past but I'm over that now, in fact i wear the Abaya now. But the problem is I get hit on by so many guys it does my head in or i get stared at in the streets by strangers. Not so much now that I wear an Abaya but when i do they act so sexual towards me and I'm just like 'erghh do1'

I actually am trying to change but its hard when guys are constantly flirting with me. Sometimes if i get along with the guy and hes good looking i get tempted and i don't want that to happen.

How do i make them stop.
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no im asking how do i get a guy to not be pervy from the start
Live on a desert island or another empty place. Men will not look at you and you will not be tempted by Satan.
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Okay i have this problem, I'm a Muslim girl and wear the Hijab. I've dated guys in the past but I'm over that now, in fact i wear the Abaya now. But the problem is I get hit on by so many guys it does my head in or i get stared at in the streets by strangers. Not so much now that I wear an Abaya but when i do they act so sexual towards me and I'm just like 'erghh do1'

I actually am trying to change but its hard when guys are constantly flirting with me. Sometimes if i get along with the guy and hes good looking i get tempted and i don't want that to happen.

How do i make them stop.
You're stuck between a rock and a hard place. What do you really expect people to do? Tell every man in the world to not look? You're just gonna have to say that you aren't interested I'm afraid
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Live on a desert island or another empty place. Men will not look at you and you will not be tempted by Satan.
PRSOM.

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So basically gurl, my advice would be to stay away from the guys, coz if ur with them then come on wat can u expect..?
plus if guys are flirting with u then u might be doing something wrong without knowing?.
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its literally just a bit of mascara
mascara?!?! you may as well just show them your tits
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hijab + makeup.. = you're looking for attention imo
Dumbest post I've ever read. I hope you lose all of your rep bars.
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