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used by a guy for no reason!

Ok here goes.
Today it was annouced when I was in 6th form that each month a boy and girl from each form would have to go out and patrol the city together making sure that no kids under year 11 had somehow managed to sneak out past the teachers at the gates.
This guy I was put with frankly doesn't like me I do not like him at all we always insults each other he more than me,so of course we were delighted at being put together :rolleyes:

Anyway, we went into the City barely talking to each other where an old friend of mine was visiting from Nottingham I was really glad to see him as he's a very good friend.;yes;
As he started talking to me this guy I was patrolling with put his arm round me so I was in shock, then my friend was looking rather confused of what was going on. My patrol bud ( :rolleyes:

) replied with "You would have never of guessed it but we are going out" :eek:

So i'm speechless and in shock, my friend is :s:

and the guy is clearly finding the whole thing funny. Then without warning he kissed me :eek:

I didn't kiss back though.
And it ended with my friend walking away, I was about to say something and the guy put his hand over my mouth then tried a attempt to kiss again :mad:

and claimed "that was fun" :wink:

- by me
I texted my friend but he hasn't responded :frown:

and seems to be blanking me for no reason :frown:

But Arggghhhh it is such a weird thing to happen :frown:

it's now ruined a relationship with one of my friends and we're not allowed to change our patrolling partners. :motz:

(Sorry for long rant by the way) :p:

I'm just irritated now by the whole thing can't stop pacing round my room. :hmpf:

Reply 1

Segat1

16

Talk to your teachers about WHY you want to change partners. Being generally freaky is reason enough.

Reply 2

herecomestrouble

14

Sorry to hear you had a rubbish time and bit of bad luck at being lumped with this guy you dont rally get on with! Such a random thing to do - maybe he secretly likes you and he doesnt know how to show it very wll hwever seeing you have feelings for another guy made him overly react...
Id like to think that the relationship with your friend isnt ruined - maybe he s just a little conused at what happens but itsno reason (as far as i can see) for you to no longer be friends so im sure he'll get back to you soon-if not then maybe just tryr and gie him a call in a couple of days or something?
good luck with it all (And try screaming into ur pillow if ur still irritated - works for me...to an extent! :P)

Reply 3

sufiankane

2

well if you dont like him, next time you are on patrol, just knee him in the nuts as hard as you can in public, and tell him quietly dont try messing wiht you again.. or you cna pretend to be together, give him a hug and knee him in the nuts.

Reply 4

shatteredmedic

I personally thought that was a really good joke, that just went wrong. If u really didnt want to kiss him i think u should have pushed him away or kciked him the second u saw him goin for u.

anyways, i dont know why ur friend is blankin u, unless he wanted something to happen between the two of u. I mean y would he blank u if the guy who kissed u really was ur boyfriend?

Reply 5

Talya

16

If he kissed you without your consent surely that is sexual assault? I'd report him to your teachers and hopefully your friend can be a witness if this guy denies it.

Reply 6

Teenage Pirate

13

If he kissed you without your consent surely that is sexual assault? I'd report him to your teachers and hopefully your friend can be a witness if this guy denies it.

Are you sure that's not... overdoing it? I mean it's a ****ty thing to do but sexual assault is quite a heavy accusation that would have quite severe consequences.

Reply 7

KellsEnder

7

Teenage Pirate

Are you sure that's not... overdoing it? I mean it's a ****ty thing to do but sexual assault is quite a heavy accusation that would have quite severe consequences.

Maybe, but it'd make him think twice about doing it again...

Reply 8

Enchanté

OP

14

shatteredmedic

I personally thought that was a really good joke, that just went wrong. If u really didnt want to kiss him i think u should have pushed him away or kciked him the second u saw him goin for u.

anyways, i dont know why ur friend is blankin u, unless he wanted something to happen between the two of u. I mean y would he blank u if the guy who kissed u really was ur boyfriend?

It was a spur of the moment thing I was paralysed in shock!
I have no idea either but he knew me and this guy did not get along so suddenly announcing we're going out which it not might of made him :s:

seeing as I moan about this other guy everythime I see him.

Reply 9

sssh

10

What an idiot! Make sure you report him! I'm sure if you explain exactly why (if you can overcome the awkwardness of having to tell all this to a teacher) then they'll be happy to change your patrol partner. I'd just pity the next girl who might get stuck with him...

Reply 10

Yoda

12

Why did you not kick him in the *******s?

Reply 11

evil groove

From the moment I read the word 'insults', I knew that he fancied you. :biggrin:

Yeah, it is assault but clearly you're not that way inclined (thank the lord), to report him.

I don't really see how the event has RUINED the relationship with your friend. That's a bit over the top unless you know that he loves you/ you fancy him, or something. :smile:

As to him not replying to your text: no credit/ is not actually bothered by what happened/ is slightly bemused but CBA texting back/ thinks you're being a drama queen...

I'm not being mean by the way hun, I just want you to see it from different perspectives. :smile:

Reply 12

General Mullet

If he kissed you without your consent surely that is sexual assault? I'd report him to your teachers and hopefully your friend can be a witness if this guy denies it.

LOL.

The guy sounds like a weirdo and needs a swift kick in the goolies.

Reply 13

Wez

14

@OP: What kind of friend ignores you after the events you described? Seems a bit of an over-reaction. Talking of over-reactions:

Talya

If he kissed you without your consent surely that is sexual assault? I'd report him to your teachers and hopefully your friend can be a witness if this guy denies it.

Dear Diary,

Today I learnt that I have been subject to sexual assault for the past few months. I always thought a jokey peck on the cheek was all good fun, but today I realised that I am a chronic sufferer of abuse...

Normally I agree with your posts Talya :smile:

, but I think this one's a bit off.

Reply 14

Talya

16

Wez

@OP: What kind of friend ignores you after the events you described? Seems a bit of an over-reaction. Talking of over-reactions:

Dear Diary,

Today I learnt that I have been subject to sexual assault for the past few months. I always thought a jokey peck on the cheek was all good fun, but today I realised that I am a chronic sufferer of abuse...

Normally I agree with your posts Talya :smile:

, but I think this one's a bit off.

Sorry from the OPs post it didn't sound like a peck on the cheek. A peck on the cheek and kiss on the lips are different.