falling in love with Ex again

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OK so there is this ex who cheated on me once and then we went separate unis etc,but now have met up again via facebook, and she's got a new bf, and i couldnt care less for a while... but then after a few months, i started talking to her again and think i've fallen in love with her again...
What do i dooo?!

Reply 1

Profesh

20

Hm.

Go separate ways. Again. That is, assuming you can't get back together (and, in all likelihood, remind yourself why it is you split-up to begin with; though circumstances do change).

Edit: Anonymous has been disabled, hasn't it? Ah, well.

Reply 2

The Bishman

8

Just remember why you broke up, if she cheated on you to be honest she isn't worth it.

Reply 3

spacecowgirl89

1

Out of sight, out of mind. Just stop talking to her, you don't want to be stuck in the same old situation, esp. if the feeling isn't mutual.

Reply 4

Nix!

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Profesh

Hm.

Go separate ways. Again. That is, assuming you can't get back together (and, in all likelihood, remind yourself why it is you split-up to begin with; though circumstances do change).

Edit: Anonymous has been disabled, hasn't it? Ah, well.

*Chuckles*

Misplaced your thesaurus? :biggrin:

Reply 5

username47781

20

Forget it, she cheated on you, what's to say she won't cheat on her current boyfriend.

Reply 6

Unregistered

Man up and get back out there.

Learn from this.

Reply 7

Profesh

20

Nix!

*Chuckles*

Misplaced your thesaurus? :biggrin:

My aloofness, more like.

Reply 8

Runaground

spacecowgirl89

Out of sight, out of mind.

You're either oblivious to what love is, or you're trying to down play the problem for the sake of the OP.

Either way, you're wrong.

OP: Love hurts, and only you know the exact feelings around the relationship and break-up. If you can't get back together with her (for whatever reason) than I feel very very sorry for you but if you are ACTUALLY falling in love with her then it'll be very very hard, almost impossible, to forget about her.

Good luck dude :smile:

Reply 9

El Scotto

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facelessvoid

OK so there is this ex who cheated on me once and then we went separate unis etc,but now have met up again via facebook, and she's got a new bf, and i couldnt care less for a while... but then after a few months, i started talking to her again and think i've fallen in love with her again...
What do i dooo?!

moron. Delete her... exes are exes for a reason.

Reply 10

Joric

facelessvoid

OK so there is this ex who cheated on me once and then we went separate unis etc,but now have met up again via facebook, and she's got a new bf, and i couldnt care less for a while... but then after a few months, i started talking to her again and think i've fallen in love with her again...
What do i dooo?!

Is she also in love with you?

Reply 11

Rainy

16

Run a mile. She won't be running with you - can guarantee that.

Exes are exes, she doesn't sound any different. She's moved on, she's hurt you in the past; don't let the feelings back in.

Reply 12

Enchanté

14

Just try to get rid of your feelings, I know that's a hard thing to do but you have to think about it, I mean she cheated on you what would happen if you got together with her again? would she cheat on you again?

Reply 13

darkos87

OP

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Thx for the advice, appreciate it, even the one who called me moron lol... :smile:

NEVER MIND, i got the gist of the message :wink:

Reply 14

ami...

You really need to delete her from facebook and not talk to her. She has already moved on with her new boyfriend. Make sure you forget her and move on too. Best way to do that is cut off complete contact with her.