I´m stuck-up, and it´s only now that I´ve really noticed it.
I come from an aristocratic family, where it´s normal to be this way, we don´t really like to mix with other classes, that is the way it always was, and I thought it was natural. I´ve always thought of myself as "refined" instead of snobbish, but now I´ve come to terms with it and I really want to change, ít´s hindering my social interactions, people who don´t know me think I am some sort of super-toff.
How can I change, and stop making people believe I´m such a tremendous snob ? For example, if someone uses the wrong vocabulary (for example ,settee) I can´t help myself, the social radar kicks in ! It really comes naturally to me to say and do "toffish" things, but I want to control myself !