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When your flatmate is hitting on you...
One of my male flatmates keeps hitting on me, I don't like it and I don't feel confortable. He is one of those who can get women at the drop of a hat and he knows this. However, I would never get into the casual sort of relationship he wants, especially not with him. He is an erasmus student, and has a girlfriend in his own country, I know they have problems and he doesn't see any kind of future for them. He is going to break up with her at some point (he told us) if this is before he leaves the erasmus scheme, how do I put it gently that I am not going to get with him to someone who thinks he is Gods gift to women? 
tell him to step down. Or pretend to give in to him and then publicly humilate him.
1. "Sorry, I'm not interested in being with anybody right now"
2. "I'd rather just keep things on a friendship level thanks"
3. "I don't sleep with people who already have girlfriends." (assuming he won't break up with her then come back later
)
4. (Laughing) It's never going to happen mate. (If he persists)
2. "I'd rather just keep things on a friendship level thanks"
3. "I don't sleep with people who already have girlfriends." (assuming he won't break up with her then come back later
)4. (Laughing) It's never going to happen mate. (If he persists)
sufiankane
Or pretend to give in to him and then publicly humilate him.
I agree on this one! Best way to go about it with men who think they are god's gift, will bring him dwn a peg or two!
GD
you could just knee him in the balls.
Gloucesterdancer
I agree on this one! Best way to go about it with men who think they are god's gift, will bring him dwn a peg or two!
GD
GD
I would agree, but I think you're forgetting that he is her flatmate. So that wouldn't be wise.
"2. "I'd rather just keep things on a friendship level thanks""
That is the best suggestion in the thread. How hard can it be to say that?
get over yourself mate. Just ignore it and it will go away. He will either get bored or win you over.
Tell him to back off.
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