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    Am i being selfish by feeling relieved that the reason we didn't work out is because he likes guys? As he told me he wasn't attracted to my body and it really put me down (after we slept together)... Im so proud of him and happy to stick by him, but am i selfish to be relieved?
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    Don't any any reason to... Everyone perceives things differently and that is fine.

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    Awhhhh
    you'd be selfish to be offended so i dont think so X'D
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    No of course not. When someone isn't attracted to you it is easy to blame yourself and put yourself down (even though you shouldn't).

    You're sticking by him at that proves what a wonderful friend/person you are. He is lucky to have your support, good on you and all the best to him
 
 
 
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