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getting over a friend

me and my mate, well we've fallen out over a stupid thing really
i really see us not being friends ever again, and if im being honest i dont know if i want to still be friends with her
but it really hurts, which i dont understand?
i dont want to be friends with her because of the hurt i always feel, and i always feel as though im left out and i dont need that, also because of the memories i feel as though theyve been wasted

i sent her a message on myspace telling her i was sorry for what i said to her, but i was just really upset and annoyed
anyway she read it but didnt reply

how do i get over her?
i deleted her off my myspace and msn, but i find myself looking on her profile still

helppppp :frown:

Reply 1

Beth_x
me and my mate, well we've fallen out over a stupid thing really
i really see us not being friends ever again, and if im being honest i dont know if i want to still be friends with her
but it really hurts, which i dont understand?
i dont want to be friends with her because of the hurt i always feel, and i always feel as though im left out and i dont need that, also because of the memories i feel as though theyve been wasted

i sent her a message on myspace telling her i was sorry for what i said to her, but i was just really upset and annoyed
anyway she read it but didnt reply

how do i get over her?
i deleted her off my myspace and msn, but i find myself looking on her profile still

helppppp :frown:


I know what you mean. I had to completely remove someone from my life, that was gone off msn, facebook, msn, mobile phone and avoid seeing her in person.

It's really not the best way to deal with it. Don't do what I did because it doesn't work.

Reply 2

Concentrate on other good friends you've got, and develop your relationship with them...go out with them and have fun! Worst thing to do is mope and sit at the computer and keep looking at their myspace and stuff like that, I know, I've been there!

Reply 3

That's exactly what's happened to me.
Just concentrate on your other friends and you'll feel so much better. Forget about her for a while and time will heal it. It's working for me :smile:

Reply 4

Thanks :smile:
good idea
i'm focusing on my gcse's at the moment so i hardly go out
she is like my friend from out of school, so it was always nice to have someone part from your school friends
but she obviously has new best friends now

its just so frustrating :frown: