Would you date an asexual?

Damn, now you're making me think I might be asexual

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Haha, sorry - the confusion can really suck sometimes. Seeing your later post though, it's good that you're pretty chill about things - you know what you like and that's the main thing.
Some people find having some kind of label helps, but some aren't so fussed. Either way, it's cool. (Not knowing what half the labels mean, however... )

So many labels People are weird.

It may seem strange but sometimes just having a label to attach to yourself can really help, as you feel less alone and you know what to search to find more stuff some people get so worked up about 'tumblr kids making too many labels' and whatever but if it's helping people I don't see the harm, it's only making people feel better




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Lol believe that you want.

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Hmmmmm, that's actually really interesting, so would you say someone who experience arousal over someone else would mean that they're not asexual?



Yeah I think even within a sexuality there is so much variation, but I think I understand it a little better. I wish this was talked about more though because you don't really get to hear much about asexuality.

When did you find out you're asexual? Never knew such a thing existed. And greysexual is pushing it a bit too far don't you think?

Hmmmmm, that's actually really interesting, so would you say someone who experience arousal over someone else would mean that they're not asexual

Yeah I think even within a sexuality there is so much variation, but I think I understand it a little better. I wish this was talked about more though because you don't really get to hear much about asexuality.

1. I think arousal is like sexual attraction so... Maybe? It's hard to tell really. I think the best indicator of wether somebody is ace or not is if they identify as it, because really everything's a spectrum so it's not like it's exact categories anyway. So if somebody choses to identify as asexual then they are!

2. MORE FAIR ASEXUAL AND AROMANTIC REPRESENTATION
Most people in my school didnt know anything about aces until I made a bunch of posters for ace awareness week. I literally made this thread just to raise awareness I hope it's working


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It took a while for me to accept it, I first heard of it in about March last year but it wasn't until September (after getting upset a lot) that I realised I just had to accept who I am which made me a lot happier. I'm also super determined to raise awareness because if everyone knows about it from puberty age then they'll be less kids feeling 'broken' because they're not like everyone else, they'll be able to recognise they're ace earlier and be happier!
I don't really think it's mine or anyone else's place to judge if greyasexual is pushing it or not, if somebody choses to identify as that because it helps them than that's fine, it's not like it affects anyone else. Feeling like you fit in to somewhere is important and I imagine greyace is particularly confusing, not feeling sexual attraction enough to feel like an allosexual, but denied entry to asexual community as well. I admit I don't know a whole lot about greyaces but I'm not going to exclude them!
If anyone reading this is a greyace I'd love to hear about it!


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Why were you so sad you were asexual? When I found out I was, i was like ok cool.

No way, sorry.

Sex is very important. Not the most important in a relationship but still very important.

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If it's an asexual girl then no.

If it's an asexual boy then yes. In fact if I date a boy then I'd prefer it if they were ace because I'm not really sexually attracted to boys. Or at least I haven't met one that I wouldn't mind having sex with.

I'm happy about it now (most of the time) but idk it seemed huge and confusing at the time, all my close friends REALLY love sex -.- so it felt like a huge wedge us, plus I knew my family wouldn't react well :/
Now I know there's a wider ace community and I'm not just 'some freak' as I used to think I'm pretty cool with it There's even a weird amount of aces in my year (like 5 others that I know of) so that's great! I'm glad you managed without the stupid drama though (lol I feel so dumb thinking about how much I overreacted XD )



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It's so weird tho, are you like one of those ppl who never want to have sex, not even to try it?