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    I would say that I am a highly observant person. I am good at picking up little things and reading people's body language. I was badly bullied for most of my school life, and then I had an episode happen to me in uni where people responded in a really nasty way to me and I learned that I had more 'fake friends' than true ones. It's not just with me, just the way I see people talking about other people. Human beings are just such nasty and mean people. They are rude, inconsiderate and heartless, they don't care if they hurt other people's feelings. I know not all of them are like that but most are.

    I'm not saying that I'm perfect as I'm not but I would like to think that I was raised well, I'm not *****y and I never go out of my way to hurt someone's feelings, especially if they haven't done anything to me. It's getting to the point that it's affecting my emotional health greatly, like I don't know who to trust anymore. So many people have been mean to me that I don't even want to talk to anyone anymore or get close to anyone. I feel like it's rare to meet genuinely nice people. I hate even going out in public nowadays because I just don't want to be around people anymore since it seems like the majority are just nasty and not nice at all. How can I stop letting this ruin my happiness?
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    I'm like this, I feel like I hate the world. I love to over analyse everything and everyone....but I realised, no one is genuinely nice, neither are we. Everyone has faults, we have faults. You can't expect perfection from an imperfect species.
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    This e with the most stupid ideas have the loudest voices, you need to seek out the good people but believe me, they exist also, you don't need to spend the rest of your life surrounded by loads of people, you can have a select group of friends whom you can rely on and just own loads of animals lol, that's my plan
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    In some ways I agree.

    People can be incredibly selfish and thoughtless. While I get on well with most people finding someone you really like is quite rare.


    This might interest you.

    http://themindunleashed.org/2013/10/...of-empath.html
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    (Original post by stefano865)
    In some ways I agree.

    People can be incredibly selfish and thoughtless. While I get on well with most people finding someone you really like is quite rare.


    This might interest you.

    http://themindunleashed.org/2013/10/...of-empath.html
    Everyone always says the exact same thing- 'everyone else is selfish and thoughtless'.
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    (Original post by stefano865)
    In some ways I agree.

    People can be incredibly selfish and thoughtless. While I get on well with most people finding someone you really like is quite rare.


    This might interest you.

    http://themindunleashed.org/2013/10/...of-empath.html
    Oh my God! I could say yes to nearly ALL of those :eek:
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    Sorry you feel like that :console:

    But you have to love the world for it to love you back :yep: After all, nothing can resist the power of love/kindness/compassion

    Just don't let people get you down and be happy with the example that you're continually striving to set
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    (Original post by TheonlyMrsHolmes)
    I'm like this, I feel like I hate the world. I love to over analyse everything and everyone....but I realised, no one is genuinely nice, neither are we. Everyone has faults, we have faults. You can't expect perfection from an imperfect species.
    :sad: you hate even me, kudiye?


    :bawling::bawling:
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    (Original post by nucdev)
    :sad: you hate even me, kudiye?


    :bawling::bawling:
    No you seem like a lovely human, that is rare, so I'm going to treasure your presence :-)
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    (Original post by rap11)
    Everyone always says the exact same thing- 'everyone else is selfish and thoughtless'.

    I don't feel that way.

    I don't have the whole 'life is unfair' thing going on at all.

    But I do recognise that some very thoughtful people often find life harder. I have come across a few people like this.
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    (Original post by TheonlyMrsHolmes)
    No you seem like a lovely human, that is rare, so I'm going to treasure your presence :-)
    :rofl::rofl: Lmao I've never been told that before

    Aww thank you, kudiye.
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    (Original post by TheonlyMrsHolmes)
    Oh my God! I could say yes to nearly ALL of those :eek:

    Cool.

    Self-knowledge is important right.
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    I realise that the extreme majority of humans only truly give a **** about themselves deep down, but that doesn't make me hate them.
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    Yeah humans are despicable creatures
    but some of them aren't so bad you know
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    (Original post by stefano865)
    I don't feel that way.

    I don't have the whole 'life is unfair' thing going on at all.

    But I do recognise that some very thoughtful people often find life harder. I have come across a few people like this.
    That because they analyse stuff. People that don't care have a much better life just simply because they dont give a ****.
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    inb4 everyone who responds is some kind of edgy, misanthropic loser
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    (Original post by z33)
    Yeah humans are despicable creatures
    but some of them aren't so bad you know
    name one.
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    (Original post by rap11)
    That because they analyse stuff. People that don't care have a much better life just simply because they dont give a ****.

    Yep that's true.
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    (Original post by rap11)
    name one.
    well... I don't know actually there's no perfect humans
    but parents who are good to their children and are supportive of them are good people imo
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I would say that I am a highly observant person. I am good at picking up little things and reading people's body language. I was badly bullied for most of my school life, and then I had an episode happen to me in uni where people re....sponded in a really nasty way to me and I learned that I had more 'fake friends' than true ones. It's not just with me, just the way I see people talking about other people. Human beings are just such nasty and mean people. They are rude, inconsiderate and heartless, they don't care if they hurt other people's feelings. I know not all of them are like that but most are.

    I'm not saying that I'm perfect as I'm not but I would like to think that I was raised well, I'm not *****y and I never go out of my way to hurt someone's feelings, especially if they haven't done anything to me. It's getting to the point that it's affecting my emotional health greatly, like I don't know who to trust anymore. So many people have been mean to me that I don't even want to talk to anyone anymore or get close to anyone. I feel like it's rare to meet genuinely nice people. I hate even going out in public nowadays because I just don't want to be around people anymore since it seems like the majority are just nasty and not nice at all. How can I stop letting this ruin my happiness?
    Hold up wait, Don't shoot up any schools!
 
 
 
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