At what age is it seen as old to lose your virginity?

Just curious, nowadays it seems that if you lost your virginity aged 18 or over people will say stuff like "how come?", "why did you wait so long?" etc, I think it's sad that viriginity has become such a big deal.

Reply 1

Ginger_Rogers

7

I don't see it as a big deal at all. In fact, I wish I HAD waited.

21+

Anything over 25 is a bit yeh. But seriously it's no big deal. As long as you're not a 40 year old virgin you're fine.

I just want to add that sex at 13 is so so wrong.

Reply 4

supernova2

11

imo should be gone by 21 unless your saving yourself :smile:

Reply 5

Raynium

I'd say its when your mentaly ready and have found a trustworthy partener to lose it to. There's nothing worse than someone taking your virginity then spreading round tat your crap in bed or whatever. I'd been warned countless numbers of times to be very careful who i'd lose it to. I'd say for definate when your over 16. Mainly to stay on the legal side heh.
Sex after marrage is very old custom, but many people do still have this belif, so its pretty much whatever you think is morally right.

Reply 6

mousy

14

Do a search, there are so many threads on this topic its unbelievable. The general consencus is always that there is no correct age to lose your virginity, do it when it feels right for you

Reply 7

Pseudomuse

1

Does it really matter what age you lose your virginity at? and if so, why should it matter.

as long as it's over 16, it doesn't

Reply 8

ßlαcksωαn

17

Why is virginity such a huge thing? I mean seriously...

Reply 9

shewantstobeme

10

not really. half of my friends are virgins, and the half which are don't boast about it. it's something to do when you want to.

Reply 10

RishiC

mousy

Do a search, there are so many threads on this topic its unbelievable. The general consencus is always that there is no correct age to lose your virginity, do it when it feels right for you

Word.

It's a personal choice. Don't feel pressures like idiots who have to copy their peers like sheep. Don't ever feel like you're being rushed and if you're comfortable and want to do something then do it -- Simple as. :rolleyes:

Reply 11

Rouge

RishiC

Word.

It's a personal choice. Don't feel pressures like idiots who have to copy their peers like sheep. Don't ever feel like you're being rushed and if you're comfortable and want to do something then do it -- Simple as. :rolleyes:

ok, non related but what doesnt mean when people write "Word." after a comment? does it mean they agree with what the person is sayng. i'v seen it loads lately

Reply 12

randomgirl

14

RishiC

Word.

It's a personal choice. Don't feel pressures like idiots who have to copy their peers like sheep. Don't ever feel like you're being rushed and if you're comfortable and want to do something then do it -- Simple as. :rolleyes:

Depends on the individual circumstances.

People shouldn't worry about what others will think of them, but the truth is they do. So what if there's a stigma with being a virgin at 25? As long as you are happy I guess.

Reply 13

1 scotch 1 whiskey 1 beer

Just have it when you want. Too young and it would probobly be ****e anyway.

Just do it when your horny and when it feels right

Reply 14

gRaDiUs

23 year 4 months and 16 days, if its not gone by then, then you are whole heartedly a loser of life and shall be laughed upon by all those cool non virgins around the world.

behold ye sarcasm

seriously though, if you lose your virginity at 15 so be it. Lose it at 28, so be it. It's not wrong to leave it later, same as its not wrong to have sex at a young age. If you wanna do it, then go ahead. People mature at different rates. I lost my virginity at 16 and I have no regrets. Myself and the girl I was with both wanted to, so we did, there was no malice, or ill feeling involved afterwards. It was simply two young people expressing themselves. So if you want to, go for it, if you wanna wait, then wait - IT MAKES NO DIFFERENCE!!! :tongue:

just enjoy it

Rouge

ok, non related but what doesnt mean when people write "Word." after a comment? does it mean they agree with what the person is sayng. i'v seen it loads lately

Yes, it means "I agree".

Reply 17

Barny

17

If you wait until you've hit puberty you've waited too long, these days.

Reply 18

gRaDiUs

x.narb.x

If you wait until you've hit puberty you've waited too long, these days.

too tru, the slack feeling really added a new dimension to the experience

Reply 19

Yellowmarshmellow

I used to worry about it and see it as a big deal but i've realised it isn't and you should lose it whenever your ready and with the right person (however i think i'd like to have lost it by the time i'm 50 lol)

At what age is it seen as old to lose your virginity?

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