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If you want to be with your girlfriend, then make sure you stay true to her.

If people are pathetic enough not to want to be friends after you've knocked them back, then they aren't worth knowing to begin with.
send them this way
Reply 3
Just got some advice from a friend of mine: "Just ****** the model". Hehe - Might need a deeper argument from him.

And yes, I want nothing more than to stay true to my bonnie lass.
Reply 4
if you really want to be true to your girlfriend, then just ignore the advances of the other girls. I really don't see what the problem is here.
Reply 5
I value their friendship.
Reply 6
Im failing to see how exactly them being a model makes any difference what so ever.
Reply 7
Reue
Im failing to see how exactly them being a model makes any difference what so ever.


Ditto.

I don't see what the problem is really. You don't like how these girls act yet you want to be around them? Sounds like you've only got yourself to blame.
Reply 8
Montster
I value their friendship.


... But if they keep trying it on they can't value your friendship, or respect your wishes and the fact you have a gf... that is unless you are leading them on.
Reply 9
Probably should have extended that more.
Model is horribly insecure and has attempted suicide not long after the first time i rejected her.
She's a lot better now, but persistant that there's something between us. I don't want her to hurt herself again.
I was also hoping to avoid bringing these other issues up, but i suppose my plea for help did make less sense without it.
Montster
Probably should have extended that more.
Model is horribly insecure and has attempted suicide not long after the first time i rejected her.
She's a lot better now, but persistant that there's something between us. I don't want her to hurt herself again.
I was also hoping to avoid bringing these other issues up, but i suppose my plea for help did make less sense without it.


Quite honestly, that's her problem, and you cannot accept any responsibility for her actions.
Reply 11
bunthulhu
Sounds like you've only got yourself to blame.


Heh - thanks. I should avoid approaching online communities for help.
Reply 12
bunthulhu
Quite honestly, that's her problem, and you cannot accept any responsibility for her actions.


But how can I not blame myself when i'm so heavily a part of her insecurity?
Montster
Heh - thanks. I should avoid approaching online communities for help.


Well what on earth are you actually asking us for? The solution is obvious and you know what it is yet you are refusing to do it.
Reply 14
bunthulhu
Well what on earth are you actually asking us for? The solution is obvious and you know what it is yet you are refusing to do it.


But it'll lead to her hurting herself again, dammit!
Montster
But it'll lead to her hurting herself again, dammit!


As I said, you are not responsible for her actions. She is out of order, you have a right to respond with your own best interests at heart, and the rest is her problem. It might sound harsh but you can't let yourself walk around on eggshells as if other people are your responsibility.
Reply 16
sorry, but I think you are a troll. I mean, if the problem is that a suicidal swimwear model is going to kill herself if you reject her, yet you want to stay with the girlfriend, why didn't you tell the hole story at once? Plus it seems unbelievable.
Reply 17
She is using this against you to manipulate you. Leave well alone, what will she say next.. if you don't leave you gf she will slit her wrists?... She needs some serious help, suggest she gets some!
You're a troll. It's that simple.
Reply 19
Why
You're a troll. It's that simple.


Agreed.