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Three's a crowd? watch

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    I have two friends, who were friends before i joined the group, for a couple of months before/close to a year. Anyway, we all became very good friends and have a lot in common.

    However, I sometimes feel really left out and like i saw my friend snap chat my other friend like lets have a sleepover 'just us', and then didn't really let me know what was happening. I sometimes feel really lonely when this happens, or when they don't contact me for a couple of hours because they're together. I do have other friends but i really value and love their friendship.

    I can tell sometimes one of them will get jealous because i'm spending time with the other, even though one of them has a boyfriend.

    Also they text all the time, but never ever text me, only occasionally, once i saw on my friends phone, 'i do love lou but i want it to just be me and you', it really hurt me.

    I feel a bit worthless when they do things like that

    I dunno what to do, sometimes shall i just not contact them or what?

    Yikes! I totally understand as that has happened to me in the past. I had to eventually separate myself from those friends. It seems that once that tight friendship has taken root it is hard to break in. Like my friends, I'm sure yours to care greatly for you but they have their own established 'group' (of 2). It would be better if you could bring a few more friends to the group. I know it is really hurtful and you have every right to be hurt. There just isn't an easy solution other than to back a way for a while. Good luck.
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