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I sometimes hate my sister

Iv been nagging to one particular person about this situation and think im doing her head in, lol so i thought id have a quick rant on here.
Ok so my mum an dad are away at indonesia for two months, my mum said to my sister to give me £50 quid one month for my food shopping and 50 quid the next month for my food shopping, instead of her paying bored and lodgings she gave me the first £50 quid, but this month she wont give me it claiming i dont spend it sensibly. My dad emailed her to say give him the money an stop being daft but she still wont, so while her and her bf are eating nice tasty meals im being left with beans on toast everyday, an yes i do work an can afford to go an buy my own food but im feeling stubborn now too.
We are constanly arguing an im really starting to lose my temper lol, over such a little thing too, the worst part is she has gone an spent the money on herself! Is it me being daft or is she being unfair?

Little bitch.

RANT OVER.

Reply 1

She's being unfair but there's not a lot you can do, keep asking nicely and keep telling your parents each time she says no or is difficult. But keep your temper. That way when they get home, she'll be in the ****, while you'll be the little angel who dealt with her bad behaviour like a mature adult.

Reply 2

jack the stuff she bought and sell it off on ebay and then deny ever doing it.

Reply 3

Throw her most expensive possession out of the window.

Reply 4

Let it go. You said you could afford to buy your own food, so do that, keep the receipts to prove you're not being overly extravagant and then when your parents get home just ask them for the £50 your sister was supposed to give you. They already know she hasn't given you the money so it shouldn't be a problem, surely?

Reply 5

puppy
Let it go. You said you could afford to buy your own food, so do that, keep the receipts to prove you're not being overly extravagant and then when your parents get home just ask them for the £50 your sister was supposed to give you. They already know she hasn't given you the money so it shouldn't be a problem, surely?


I think im gonna go with this solution lol, as good as throwing her best possesion out of the window sounds or selling her food on ebay lol, i think this is the most sensible. :smile:

Reply 6

But Puppy is a very sensible person, she's proven it in the past :smile:
Quite right to follow her advice, couldn't have said any better myself.

Reply 7

Wait until shes sleeping then tie her up and dump her in the basement for a month.

Problem Solved!

Reply 8

FrenchGal
But Puppy is a very sensible person, she's proven it in the past :smile:
Quite right to follow her advice, couldn't have said any better myself.


... seems unlikely to me, but thank you anyway.

Reply 9

ru the youngest in the family??? if yes I understand how it feels! I am the youngest too and I went through evrth bad that can be possible and not possible frm older sisters and brothers. I can und how it feels for you...but she is pretty much in control now. I dont know if she is gonna give u money or not, but ur parents surely will talk to her.
The good thing is that you will probbaly get best friends with her when ur older and will both laugh on this situation. It happened with me.

Reply 10

CherryGarcia
ru the youngest in the family??? if yes I understand how it feels! I am the youngest too and I went through evrth bad that can be possible and not possible frm older sisters and brothers. I can und how it feels for you...but she is pretty much in control now. I dont know if she is gonna give u money or not, but ur parents surely will talk to her.
The good thing is that you will probbaly get best friends with her when ur older and will both laugh on this situation. It happened with me.


Im so embarrased she is 18 im 22 lol, we actually do get on well and we go out drinking together in a big group of her friends and my friends lol, but its just over this last month i think we have both been really pissing each other off.

Im gonna throw her most expensive posession out of the window lol :p:

Reply 11

Why does your sister have to give you money anyway? Why didn't your parents just give it to you?

Reply 12

MissHero
Why does your sister have to give you money anyway? Why didn't your parents just give it to you?


Reading the first post would help :smile:

'Ok so my mum an dad are away at indonesia for two months, my mum said to my sister to give me £50 quid one month for my food shopping and 50 quid the next month for my food shopping, instead of her paying board and lodgings'

Reply 13

heppelstone16
Iv been nagging to one particular person about this situation and think im doing her head in, lol so i thought id have a quick rant on here.
Ok so my mum an dad are away at indonesia for two months, my mum said to my sister to give me £50 quid one month for my food shopping and 50 quid the next month for my food shopping, instead of her paying bored and lodgings she gave me the first £50 quid, but this month she wont give me it claiming i dont spend it sensibly. My dad emailed her to say give him the money an stop being daft but she still wont, so while her and her bf are eating nice tasty meals im being left with beans on toast everyday, an yes i do work an can afford to go an buy my own food but im feeling stubborn now too.
We are constanly arguing an im really starting to lose my temper lol, over such a little thing too, the worst part is she has gone an spent the money on herself! Is it me being daft or is she being unfair?

Little bitch.

RANT OVER.


A rather petty thing to "hate" your sister for.....

Reply 14

Just keep cool. You've got money stocked up, spend that instead. Then claim the £50 when your parents come back.

Reply 15

girl89
Reading the first post would help :smile:

'Ok so my mum an dad are away at indonesia for two months, my mum said to my sister to give me £50 quid one month for my food shopping and 50 quid the next month for my food shopping, instead of her paying board and lodgings'


I still don't understand why the sister should be paying him; they're both adults, why should one give the other money for food?

Reply 16

heppelstone16
Iv been nagging to one particular person about this situation and think im doing her head in, lol so i thought id have a quick rant on here.
Ok so my mum an dad are away at indonesia for two months, my mum said to my sister to give me £50 quid one month for my food shopping and 50 quid the next month for my food shopping, instead of her paying bored and lodgings she gave me the first £50 quid, but this month she wont give me it claiming i dont spend it sensibly. My dad emailed her to say give him the money an stop being daft but she still wont, so while her and her bf are eating nice tasty meals im being left with beans on toast everyday, an yes i do work an can afford to go an buy my own food but im feeling stubborn now too.
We are constanly arguing an im really starting to lose my temper lol, over such a little thing too, the worst part is she has gone an spent the money on herself! Is it me being daft or is she being unfair?

Little bitch.

RANT OVER.

Just take it from her. Forcibly if necessary.

Reply 17

'Disappear' (stay with a friend) for a day or two, long enough for her to have to phone your parents to tell them, and then show up and say you were staying at a friend's house because she was refusing to give you money for food and you were too hungry to let it continue.

Reply 18

To the op, you shouldn't say you "hate" your sister. You should appreciate your sister. I know how you feel sometimes they do get on your nerves, but I have had something bad thats happend to my sister today, and I am so upset and worried about her, I am not going into too much detail but it's really serious. So please appreciate you have a sister. Ask yourself this, What if you didn't have a sister what would you do?

Reply 19

sweetface.
Ask yourself this, What if you didn't have a sister what would you do?


Have money for food, probably.