I fall in love too easily with guys who show me a bit of kindness or affection

What you're describing isn't love in its purest of forms, it's infatuation.

You're filling the void that your father left you with guys you meet and are infatuated by.

The only way to do this is realise that you're not in love with them before you get sucked into the same old routine.

Ok, fair enough. Do I know you though? That's all I want to know.

FEED ME

I'm the exact same.

Really? The most disgusting? That's quite odd.

Men who pray on these women who I resent more....but they should stop being so lame....look at her...how can I stop being a wuss? She knows....

Same

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I'm the exact same.

Same

I'm'a throw in a 'same' too :3

I'm sorry that my initial post wasn't that helpful and I didn't elaborate. It might have seemed a bit brutal but it's just that this is probably stemming from how your father has treated you and it's a deeply psychological thing- almost like how your brain was wired as you were growing up. So it's not your fault nor is it something you can 'easily' work on to change. I would suggest trying to work on building a relationship with your father- if he is quite stoic I know it's difficult, but that might help. He does love you he probably just doesn't know how to show affection. Is your mum still around? How did your father treat her? Could you talk to her about it? Maybe understanding why he's like that or has been like that would really help you too. Maybe you need some cognitive behavioural therapy as well. As this is about your behaviour as a result of your cognition- so you need to work on changing that which is what CBT does. Feel free to PM me and once again I apologise if my initial comment wasn't helpful but it certainly wasn't meant to be as offensive as it may have looked at first.

i see you falling in love very easy actually

I'm the opposite. I used to, but now I don't let myself fall in love at all. That way I'm not hurt.

like literally anyone who says nice stuff to me I'm like "plz love me" inside

you fall in love with men when they show you affection too?

I'm'a throw in a 'same' too :3

like literally anyone who says nice stuff to me I'm like "plz love me" inside

Seriously, why are so many guys on here are just (only a four letter word would fit here).

Honey, it's understandable. Women are wired in some ways to seek emotional reassurance first. There's a saying that men look for sex and find love, and women look for love and find sex. I would say it would be good to try to build on yourself first and do more things that you love and enjoy and become a full person in just yourself.

Regarding to relationship, it may be good to date several men at once so you don't latch on to one person straight away and can see who you are truly attracted to and how you feel about them. Take it slow. It will take time, but it's good you are seeking help.

you have summarised me as a person.

I used to be like that, just now I've been in love with the same girl for 5 years now despite the fact the doesn't love me back and I haven't seen her for 4 of those years.

Can't see me ever falling for someone else.

Are you me? Because that was my summary too

Yes. I am you, you are me, we are one.