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Ok so what do i do?

:confused: ok so i broke up with my boyfriend 2 weeks ago, but it was kinda mutual and we both still like eachother. Went out with friends the other night for a birthday and he decided to leave early and i found out it was because another guy was giving me attention. we spoke couple of days after that, and he was sayin how much he wanted to kiss me and one thing led to another. we had a meal and it was really nice. but he doesnt want his friends to know about us meeting up, and were not exclusive. what am i meant to think, do i move on and tell him to forget it or do i wait and see what happens?
Ask him straight up what he's upto!

Not fair on you to have you hangin around!!!

GD
Reply 2
Why does it have to be a secret? How strange. I would ask him what he it is he wants from you, friendship? relationship? It's not fair that you should be waiting around for him, keeping secrets from friends and such. You deserve to know where you stand with him, it's possible he is confused but you need to know if it's time for you to move on or not.
One thing led to another...we had a meal!? lol.
Reply 4
lol sorry, one thing led to another. after that we went for a meal!
hhhhhmmm why keep it secret? I dont understand?

I think there's some questions which need answering
It is the not exclusive bit which I think is worrying.


This translates as 'I don't particularly want you, but I'll be damned if anyone else will get you. So let's have sex when I want to, but it means you can't moan when I go with another girl. I wont tell my friends because they will go on at me whenever I start chatting up another girl in a club'.


Be very wary.