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    So we both are doing the same course and we have lectures/seminars together 2-3times a week. He's Incredibly handsome and majority of the girls do fancy him. He's also very reserved and barely talks to anyone, besides his small group of friends.

    I on the other hand am course rep, always answering questions and often lead study groups etc. I've had a few guys ask me out or take interest but I'm not interested in anyone, except him!

    We've just gone into our second semester and we do talk a little more each time. He will text me about work etc and over Christmas called me twice about assignments. My friend told me he asked her if she'd seen more or knew if I would be coming in.

    Yesterday we ended up being alone (for the first time) in the cafe and we spoke for a little while. And he asked if I was seeing someone and gathered that the guy I've been talking too is 'not worth the stress' and I should 'keep my options open'. He told me he isn't seeing anyone either and spoke about his family. And told me some personal things about himself too. He ended up leaving with the girl he was waiting for, however, he told me their just friends and when I asked, he said he's not interested in her in 'that way'.

    But do you reckon he likes me? Or is it platonic? I don't wanna overthink it and despite getting a lot of attention from other guys at uni, it's his that I want! What would you suggest I do to show I am interested? Also This morning We text that we'd meet next week at uni to do some work together. Do you reckon he will contact me about our study session next week? Should I let him initiate that, as that will indicate if he's actually bothered or not, as oppose just as a passing by comment and just wrapping up a convo? Thanks everyone!! xxx
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    He's definitely interested. He felt the need to make sure you knew the girl was just his friend, it's because he's letting you know he's available. Throwing out little hints to gauge your interest. The fact that he asked you about your relationship status is another clear indicator. For someone you dont know too well, that question wouldnt really come up unless the person was interested in you.

    Seems like he likes you, I'd say go for it and ask him out.
    Unless you're one of those people that only believes guys should be the one's asking girls out.
 
 
 
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