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I need to condom train my bf, apart from 3 occasions he never uses it and we've both been tested and i've mentioned it to him that 'i'm going to get you condom trained'
I even purposely nipped his male part so he had to use it but he didn't even though he was in pain.
Any advice on what I should do?
And I am using contraceptive , so is that why he feels confident not to use one?
I even purposely nipped his male part so he had to use it but he didn't even though he was in pain.
Any advice on what I should do?
And I am using contraceptive , so is that why he feels confident not to use one?
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#3
Nipped his male part?
Maybe he just really doesn't want to use them, and if you really want to use them then I guess you might not work out, or just stop having sex...
Maybe he just really doesn't want to use them, and if you really want to use them then I guess you might not work out, or just stop having sex...
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#4
I'm not sure violence is the way to solve this issue. Just say 'I'm not having sex with you without a condom.' And then don't unless he's using one.
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#5
Why do you 'need' to do this? 'I only want to have sex with condoms' is a reason, but that's not the one you have, is it?
Nipping him was not good behaviour.
Nipping him was not good behaviour.
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#6
(Original post by Anonymous)
I need to condom train my bf, apart from 3 occasions he never uses it and we've both been tested and i've mentioned it to him that 'i'm going to get you condom trained'
I even purposely nipped his male part so he had to use it but he didn't even though he was in pain.
Any advice on what I should do?
And I am using contraceptive , so is that why he feels confident not to use one?
I need to condom train my bf, apart from 3 occasions he never uses it and we've both been tested and i've mentioned it to him that 'i'm going to get you condom trained'
I even purposely nipped his male part so he had to use it but he didn't even though he was in pain.
Any advice on what I should do?
And I am using contraceptive , so is that why he feels confident not to use one?
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#7
(Original post by Ciel.)
What's the point if you are on the pill? Anyway, just tell him you are not on the pill anymore then, I'm sure he'll start using them.
What's the point if you are on the pill? Anyway, just tell him you are not on the pill anymore then, I'm sure he'll start using them.
But it doesn't matter why OP wants to use condoms. Wanting to use barriers is enough of a reason to insist they are used or certain (or any) sexual activities don't happen.
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#8
(Original post by Dheorl)
or just stop having sex...
or just stop having sex...
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#10
(Original post by CrawfordDave)
This. He'll quickly start using condoms if you stop sex altogether.
This. He'll quickly start using condoms if you stop sex altogether.
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#13
(Original post by Dheorl)
Or, you know, they'll just stop having sex.
Or, you know, they'll just stop having sex.
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#14
(Original post by CrawfordDave)
doubt that a guy would be satisfied not having sex. And it is a whole lot better than risking pregnancy
doubt that a guy would be satisfied not having sex. And it is a whole lot better than risking pregnancy
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#16
Simple fix..tell your boyfriend in no uncertain terms, until he wears a condom he will only receive anal and oral love.
Until he can respect you, all he gets is your mouth and back-door! After his first urinary tract infection from "playing the back nine", and penile bleaching to rid him of the so called "high-tide mark", he will think again.
Here's a helpful hint, chow down on a curry vindaloo and some prune custard and hour or so before the butt feast begins... this will traumatise him into action! (Unless he's a fifty year old German male, in which case ignore my advice!)
Until he can respect you, all he gets is your mouth and back-door! After his first urinary tract infection from "playing the back nine", and penile bleaching to rid him of the so called "high-tide mark", he will think again.
Here's a helpful hint, chow down on a curry vindaloo and some prune custard and hour or so before the butt feast begins... this will traumatise him into action! (Unless he's a fifty year old German male, in which case ignore my advice!)
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#17
(Original post by Dheorl)
I find condoms bad enough I often would rather just not have sex.
I find condoms bad enough I often would rather just not have sex.
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#18
Why are you talking about training him as if he's a dog? That's not how you treat a boyfriend.
If you're on another contraceptive you don't NEED condoms. I've used just the pill with my long term boyfriend for a long time and it's fine as long as you take it consistently. He probably doesn't understand why you would want to make him wear something that will make sex less enjoyable for him when you're already taking contraception, if I were him I wouldn't be pleased about it either!
If you're on another contraceptive you don't NEED condoms. I've used just the pill with my long term boyfriend for a long time and it's fine as long as you take it consistently. He probably doesn't understand why you would want to make him wear something that will make sex less enjoyable for him when you're already taking contraception, if I were him I wouldn't be pleased about it either!
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#19
If he does not respect you enough to meet your demands that he wears a condom when having sex, I do not think he can respect you enough to continue a mature relationship with you.
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#20
(Original post by Ciel.)
I think you are realyyyy exaggerating now. Don't believe it for a second.
I think you are realyyyy exaggerating now. Don't believe it for a second.
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