Condom training for boyfriend

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I think you are realyyyy exaggerating now. Don't believe it for a second.

Nope, being genuinely honest. They can be painful to put on, dull sensation when on, make sex less spontaneous and exciting and can be a pain to dispose of afterwards.

Reply 21

Dheorl

Original post by Nigel Farage MEP

If he does not respect you enough to meet your demands that he wears a condom when having sex, I do not think he can respect you enough to continue a mature relationship with you.

This is a ridiculous view to have. Frankly I wouldn't want to be in any relationship where sex involves demands of any kind.

Reply 22

domonict

Original post by Dheorl

This is a ridiculous view to have. Frankly I wouldn't want to be in any relationship where sex involves demands of any kind.

Such as.

" I demand the oright to have sex without a condom regardless of your (her) insistence" ?

The conditions of sex between two people have to be clearly understood and no decent partner would insist on condom free sex if the other feels it is needed

Reply 23

unprinted

Absolutely, but in this case unless I am reading the original post wrongly, the OP seems to think that she should get her current boyf happy to use condoms with future partners.

Reply 24

Lord_Fister

Simple fix..tell your boyfriend in no uncertain terms, until he wears a condom he will only receive anal and oral love. Until he can respect you all he gets is your mouth and back-door! After his first urinary tract infection from

Reply 25

supernerdural

Just because you are on the pill doesn't mean he shouldn't use a condom. If he finds them uncomfortable, or they dull the sensation etc make sure he realises no one will want to have sex with him without one because of the infection risk.

Honestly, he sounds really immature and you shouldn't waste your time with him. Tell him no condom no sex, and if he leaves you are better off without him.

Reply 26

Dheorl

Original post by domonict

And no decent partner would demand on something that ruins an otherwise pleasurable experience. No decent partner would "demand" anything. A discussion as to the reason for each sides views with a conclusion hopefully being reached or the relationship being terminated that is what decent partners would do.

Reply 27

Dheorl

Original post by supernerdural

Millions, if not possibly billions, of people would happily have sex with someone without a condom, some even irregardless as to whether or not they are in a relationship.

Yes, obviously if a woman is ridiculously paranoid about pregnancy then some compromise will have to be made or they'll have to stop having sex. I really don't see why a guy not wanting to use a condom is seen as such a heinous opinion though.

Reply 28

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You probably just need to nip him again

Reply 29

Cremated_Spatula

N-n-n-nipping his male parts?

Wtf?

Original post by Dheorl

This is a ridiculous view to have. Frankly I wouldn't want to be in any relationship where sex involves demands of any kind.

I demand that no one nip my male parts.

Original post by Lord_Fister

Simple fix..tell your boyfriend in no uncertain terms, until he wears a condom he will only receive anal and oral love.Until he can respect you, all he gets is your mouth and back-door! After his first urinary tract infection from "playing the back nine", and penile bleaching to rid him of the so called "high-tide mark", he will think again.

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Here's a helpful hint, chow down on a curry vindaloo and some prune custard and hour or so before the butt feast begins... this will traumatise him into action! (Unless he's a fifty year old German male, in which case ignore my advice!)

Not the dreaded anal & oral!
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Reply 30

username457532

Original post by Dheorl

This is a ridiculous view to have. Frankly I wouldn't want to be in any relationship where sex involves demands of any kind.

Sex is about consent. And the people involved in the sex both have to consent to any activity and can put any restriction they like on that activity happening. If the other person (or people) involved don't agree with the restrictions then that activity doesn't happen.

Reply 31

Dheorl

Original post by SmallTownGirl

And he is equally able to put the restriction of no condoms. If they can't agree then they can't have sex. This is pretty much what I've been saying the whole thread.

Reply 32

username457532

Original post by Dheorl

And he is equally able to put the restriction of no condoms. If they can't agree then they can't have sex. This is pretty much what I've been saying the whole thread.

Yes. If OP says they'll only have sex with condom's their boyfriend needs to decide if he'd rather use condoms or not have sex.

Reply 33

Dheorl

Original post by SmallTownGirl

Yes. If OP says they'll only have sex with condom's their boyfriend needs to decide if he'd rather use condoms or not have sex.

I'm confused as to why it's always worded this way round. If the OP's bf says they'll only have sex without condoms she needs to decide if she'd rather not use them or not have sex.

Reply 34

Tom78

Original post by Anonymous

I need to condom train my bf, apart from 3 occasions he never uses it and we've both been tested and i've mentioned it to him that 'i'm going to get you condom trained'

I even purposely nipped his male part so he had to use it but he didn't even though he was in pain.

Any advice on what I should do?

And I am using contraceptive , so is that why he feels confident not to use one?

what does nipped his male part mean? With your teeth? You sliced his dick?

Reply 35

Pharmaholic

Why hasn't anybody suggested the OP using a female condom instead then? The pill and this condom will give you two types of protection, a very low risk of getting pregnant and protects from STDs.

Reply 36

Anonymous #1

Original post by Tom78

what does nipped his male part mean? With your teeth? You sliced his dick?

with teeth nothing else, just a cut that stretched when he continues to have sex without it healing

Reply 37

Anonymous #1

Original post by Pharmaholic

Why hasn't anybody suggested the OP using a female condom instead then? The pill and this condom will give you two types of protection, a very low risk of getting pregnant and protects from STDs.

I've tried other contraceptions and I just want him to do his part so if anything goes wrong it wont be blamed on me.

That's the real essence of this 'condom training' issue.

And i'm not on the pill, I am on the implant which is more permanent

Reply 38

Anonymous #1

From what I've read so far, the main issue is so that it's not 100% on me not to get pregnant, so I just want him to do his part.

But, usually due to laziness or the excitement of the moment, he doesn't comply unless his man hood is hurt.

And I've tried other contraception, and i'm not paranoid, just don't want to get pregnant during university.