Friends :(

well since you have been with this clique for so long I would confront them - just so that your mind is at ease - coz you have been friends for so long and you will continually wonder ---
from my experience: I had this girl ignore me for about 2 months - I confronted her, she had no reason really and we agreed to forget about it - 2 weeks later, same thing - I wasn't fussed anymore, just ignored her coz school [year 13] was coming to a close and we were gonna be moving on with life - and I knew that I hadn't done anything wrong simply because she didn't have a reason when I asked her!!

so confront them - see if they have any valid reason - just to calm your mind really - if you guys do forgive and forget that'll be good - but if you don't, as you said, you have other friends

Reply 2

Definately say something but at the end of the day - you will make new friends as the "lets stay in contact" *******s tends not to really work that well in this day and age

Reply 3

OP

I have confronted them and they do this fake "awww im sooo sorry i didnt mean to" act, and then have the nerve to say "GO AWAY WE WANNA SPEAK IN PRIVATE!"
Its like erm..

Reply 4

Enchanté

If you feel like confronting to see them why they are acting this way do it. :smile:

If not just leave them two of my friends went weird for a while a few weeks back but that's because one of them were going though a difficult phase though which they ended up explaining.

Reply 5

just ignore them then - you don't need them -- and like Darren said - the whole 'lets stay in contact thing' never works really - within 4 months of uni I lost contact with everyone - which was a shame really - but I have great friends now so it's alright really
And like you said in your first post - you have other friends that you can hang out with - and well you now know that you really haven't done anything coz they don't even give a reason! - so just leave them be

Reply 6

RdotR

I have confronted them and they do this fake "awww im sooo sorry i didnt mean to" act, and then have the nerve to say "GO AWAY WE WANNA SPEAK IN PRIVATE!"
Its like erm..

sorry but they sound like a bunch of 5 year olds. Be the grown up and move on and let them have their stupid little click of friends. Pre-pare yourself for sixth form, where no-one will know you and you can start a fresh, with no one judging you. Look forward to the experience and forget about the stupid friends you're leaving behind.

Reply 7

OP

Thanks everyone :smile:

Im just a bit concerned that the "leader" will get into the new sixth form Im going to. She keeps making comments such as "OH WHEN YOU GO TO THE NEW SIXTH FORM YOUR GONAN SIT IN A CORNER NOT CHATTING TO ANYONE WHEREAS IM GONNA HAVE FRIENDS"
Its like whats the point..its a bit irritating now, I wish she doesnt get in :frown:

edit: Yeah they do act all immature, they literally run around screaming and shreaking and we get dirty looks from people on the street. They like jump around and have "private jokes" etc.

Reply 8

well leaders don't get far really - coz if you think about it - where would they be without their flock of sheep!? :rolleyes:

they never get far if they don't have adoring fans - and when you are at sixth form- things change - you will have better friends - and if she tries to piss you off - stand up for yourself

Reply 9

Good luck to her - let her have her stupid ways. Like i said before, just act the grown up and move on. You'll make new friends! Just dont give her ammunition to use against you, like acting to their level or making a fool of yourself (not that you are). Go to the college and be overly nice to as many people as possible.

Reply 10

OP

She'd be nowhere without her sheep!
I guess you are right, I'll just rise above them..I have my exams soon and should focus on that rather than them.

Reply 11

exactly!! your exams are more important than these stupid people!

Reply 12

Phantom Phoenix

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RdotR

Thanks everyone :smile:

Im just a bit concerned that the "leader" will get into the new sixth form Im going to. She keeps making comments such as "OH WHEN YOU GO TO THE NEW SIXTH FORM YOUR GONAN SIT IN A CORNER NOT CHATTING TO ANYONE WHEREAS IM GONNA HAVE FRIENDS"
Its like whats the point..its a bit irritating now, I wish she doesnt get in :frown:

edit: Yeah they do act all immature, they literally run around screaming and shreaking and we get dirty looks from people on the street. They like jump around and have "private jokes" etc.

That's utterly pathetic. :rolleyes:

It sounds as if you're much better off without them; I used to know people like that and life improved dramatically when I got shot of them! Go to your new 6th form having shed your image as "one of those idiots" (or some worse word that I can't really use here) and make your own friends on your own terms.

As for the leader...well, if she acts like that, she'll make new friends who acts like fools. You can just ignore her and get to know actual adults. Then you have the slightly stuffy but nonetheless enjoyable pleasure of rolling your eyes to your new friends when she goes screeching past and saying "I'm SO glad I don't hang out with her any more". You can all give her sneery looks. That can be YOUR private joke. No one said you have to act adult ALL the time. :p:

Reply 13

OP

Yeah you're right, in lesson I listen and do my work (which is reflected in my rsults) they just sit there drawing over each others paper
"<3 U 4EVA XOXOXO"

Reply 14

immature brats they are

Reply 15

OP

Basically the leaders really like LOUD and immature, she runs around on the streets and stuff and the general public jsut stare at her asin "freak"
In the new sixth form..revenge!!! :ninja:

Reply 16

Dont let them ruin your exam results - i may sound like a teacher now, but they are important exams which will have an impact on the rest of your life (no pressure or anything). let them piss around in class, ten years down the line when you've been to uni or got a-levels and they're working in McDonalds or something like that, then you can be the one laughing

Reply 17

OP