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Ditch her or nah? watch

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    So I have this 'friend' and tbf she doesn't deserve that title.We used to be in the same friendship group last year but that group split up and she went off with one of the girls from the group.
    At the start of this year I noticed she would only speak to me in classes where she didn't have anybody else to sit & work with.
    Then in different classes where she had her other friend she wouldn't even look at me or acknowledge my existence.
    I like to think Ive been a good friend to her.I always make the effort, ask how she is, and try to make her feel better when she's feeling down.About 2 weeks ago she stopped turning up to classes and I messaged her asking if she was ok.Then last week she was feeling crap because of something that happened in her life and I gave her some advice and tried to make her feel better about the situation.
    Tbh I feel like im being used because I give and dont get anything in return.In first year I was there for her ,last semester I was there for her and she didn't even wish me a happy birthday or a happy Christmas but did to the girls in the old group (that split).
    I've always had this problem of giving too much to people.
    Now that second semester is starting I know for sure she'll stick with me in tutorials she doesn't have anyone to sit with.(She's quite close minded.She won't sit next to anyone in class or talk to them if she hasn't spoken to them before).
    I'm thinking of doing the same to her, ignoring her and sitting with different people but again I don't know if that's in me to start ignoring somebody just like that.I know how much she doesn't like being on her own.Shes very clingy.
    If you were in this situation would you ditch or nah?.

    Well, don't be there then.

    She clearly doesn't appreciate the efforts you're making so don't waste your breath on her...
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