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    (Original post by Axel Johann)
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    you are such a tease axel :lol:
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    (Original post by SophieSmall)
    Well that would be mighty inappropriate and immoral since I'm in a relationship so no lol
    So depends on the guy meant "the boyfriend"
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    (Original post by SophieSmall)
    Depends on the context, but almost certainly assuming it's sexual. So I would tell them to remove their hand.
    This girl I like let me...
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    (Original post by Axel Johann)
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    ahaha no no X'D you're not an acquaintance you're a friend
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    (Original post by ChaoticButterfly)
    So depends on the guy meant "the boyfriend"
    Well right now it means that yeah because I have one, but next year I might not be in a relationship so it could mean just someone I'm interested in.
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    (Original post by Sgt_Haytham)
    This girl I like let me...
    Good for you
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    (Original post by Zargabaath)
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    (Original post by Sgt_Haytham)
    You're not exactly friends. You've spoken a couple times only.
    In this context, it'd probably depend on how comfortable I was with them but as a general rule no, if I was comfortable with them then maybe friendly touches.
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    (Original post by abruiseonthesky)
    In this context, it'd probably depend on how comfortable I was with them but as a general rule no, if I was comfortable with them then maybe friendly touches.
    Is a thigh touch friendly to you?
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    (Original post by Sgt_Haytham)
    Is a thigh touch friendly to you?
    Depends where really but generally I think I'd find that sexual.

    This whole question's a really individual thing though so were are going to be really varied responses
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    (Original post by Sgt_Haytham)
    As the title states.
    This is an o[en ended question with nothing to clarify the meaning of 'touch'.

    1) What is the relationship to the person being touched?

    2) What do you mean by 'touch'?

    3) Where on the persons body is the touch?

    4) Is the touch through clothing or under clothing?

    5) Is the touch: general, affectionate, loving, accidental or sexual in nature?

    W.T.F.?
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    (Original post by uberteknik)

    1) What is the relationship to the person being touched?
    We're aquaintances. I can't say we're "friends" yet because we've spoken a handful of times.

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    2) What do you mean by 'touch'?
    What else could it mean? I touched her.

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    3) Where on the persons body is the touch?
    Her thigh. I did touch her upper arm after too.

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    4) Is the touch through clothing or under clothing?
    What do you mean "through" clothing. She had clothes on... it was in a seminar.

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    5) Is the touch: general, affectionate, loving, accidental or sexual in nature?
    It was intended to be seual/affectionate... I really like her and couldn't help touching her.
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    In what context? To put it short, no.
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    (Original post by Sgt_Haytham)
    We're aquaintances. I can't say we're "friends" yet because we've spoken a handful of times.



    What else could it mean? I touched her.



    Her thigh. I did touch her upper arm after too.



    What do you mean "through" clothing. She had clothes on... it was in a seminar.



    It was intended to be seual/affectionate... I really like her and couldn't help touching her.
    What was her response to your 'touch'?
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    (Original post by uberteknik)
    What was her response to your 'touch'?
    Well she didn't pull away, tell me to stop or look disgusted/surprised.

    I touched her again only minutes after too. We're talking.
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    (Original post by Sgt_Haytham)
    Well she didn't pull away, tell me to stop or look disgusted/surprised.

    I touched her again only minutes after too. We're talking.
    Do you want a relationship with this girl? She most likely thinks you are interested but the only way to be certain is to talk to her.

    Apologise that you touched her and say you find her very attractive and could not help yourself. Then ask her out for a date and take it from there.

    Communication is everything.

    P.S. don't make a habit of touching girls without first making it clear your intentions, you could end up in serious doo-doo if it's not appreciated as it can be construed as sexual harassment or even assault.
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    (Original post by uberteknik)
    Do you want a relationship with this girl? She most likely thinks you are interested but the only way to be certain is to talk to her.

    Apologise that you touched her and say you find her very attractive and could not help yourself. Then ask her out for a date and take it from there.

    Communication is everything.

    P.S. don't make a habit of touching girls without first making it clear your intentions, you could end up in serious doo-doo if it's not appreciated as it can be construed as sexual harassment or even assault.
    Why should I apologise for touching her lol? Shall I apologise for being attracted to her too?

    I've always touched girls I like... that way I can't be put in the friend zone. Either they're attracted to me or they reject me.

    It would only be sexual assault or harrassment if I kept doing it after she said no... or if I touched her somewlhere highly innappropriate like her fanny or her tit.
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    (Original post by Sgt_Haytham)
    Why should I apologise for touching her lol? Shall I apologise for being attracted to her too?

    I've always touched girls I like... that way I can't be put in the friend zone. Either they're attracted to me or they reject me.

    It would only be sexual assault or harrassment if I kept doing it after she said no... or if I touched her somewlhere highly innappropriate like her fanny or her tit.
    Carry on buddy and get what's coming to you.
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    I've met lots of girls. Some i have simply glanced at, some ive spoken to, some ive shaken their hand, some ive held hands with and walked in the park, some ive hugged,some ive hugged a little longer,some ive kissed,and some ive slowly undressed,kissed and made slow passionate love with. The secret is to know when and what is appropriate with whom.
 
 
 
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