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    My partner has decided she wants to do something and I really hate it! Seriously feel guilty thinking this .

    Changing appearance by way of body work. I have no idea what to do. Love her but it turns my stomach when I see others with it let alone my girlfriend.

    No idea what to do here!
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    My partner has decided she wants to do something and I really hate it! Seriously feel guilty thinking this .

    Changing appearance by way of body work. I have no idea what to do. Love her but it turns my stomach when I see others with it let alone my girlfriend.

    No idea what to do here!
    It is a really difficult situation. Obviously at the end of the day it is her decision whether or not she does it. However if it is something that you feel strongly about have you considered gently talking to her about your feelings? With anything that causes conflict in a relationship try to talk about it in a calm manner is normally your best approach.
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    (Original post by randdom)
    It is a really difficult situation. Obviously at the end of the day it is her decision whether or not she does it. However if it is something that you feel strongly about have you considered gently talking to her about your feelings? With anything that causes conflict in a relationship try to talk about it in a calm manner is normally your best approach.
    I have been straight up what I think. Think the bottom line is I either accept it or part ways. Should she not now do it I would feel guilty as well uncomfortable.
 
 
 
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