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    Painful. I'm a little on the large side, and the girl it was with was very very tight. I ended up going soft and giving up.
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    (Original post by WoodyMKC)
    For me, the more desensitised I become to sexual things, the more I enjoy sex. I don't really have sex for an amazing orgasm anymore or anything like that, masturbation is the go-to for that for me; when I have sex it's just for fun, whereas my first time and the first couple times after that I was like "OMG I'm about to have sex, excited!!" and I never really paid much attention to what I was doing, just rutting away like an animal so was probably terrible back then :rofl: Whereas now I just have fun doing all the things I've seen in the multitude of porn films I've watched and focus on pleasing the girl I'm giving a good seeing to, and as a result I enjoy it and find it a lot more fun on the whole.
    Sorry but "seen on porn films" does not equal pleasuring women. My one advice to any man is don't think that what you see on porn is anything like real life sex or that it's always like that.

    Especially don't take tips from porn films. Don't.
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    It's all ogre now
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    It's all ogre now
    That's so shrecksy
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    (Original post by bethwalker85)
    Sorry but "seen on porn films" does not equal pleasuring women. My one advice to any man is don't think that what you see on porn is anything like real life sex or that it's always like that.

    Especially don't take tips from porn films. Don't.
    especially the way they can treat the bean....... like ouch????
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    (Original post by bethwalker85)
    Sorry but "seen on porn films" does not equal pleasuring women. My one advice to any man is don't think that what you see on porn is anything like real life sex or that it's always like that.

    Especially don't take tips from porn films. Don't.
    Absolutely, wasn't trying to insinuate that at all though I realise it might come across that way. Let's face it, though, without a bit of demonstration, most of us wouldn't have a clue :rofl: but I've talked with previous partners about what they like and don't like and while everyone's different, I've noticed patterns and similarities and had practice and gotten good feedback (not literally LOL, but I've given orgasms and so on) so I know my fair share about how to please a girl in general, and as you hinted towards, most girls don't like to be ragged about like they are in porn films :lol:
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    It really does depend. My first time was great and deeply satisfying.
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    Mediocre. Didn't feel anything other than the hormones lol...
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    Painful but not too bad he still tries to sleep with me 18 months after dumping me though.....
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    Went way better than I thought.
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    Somewhat awkward, but not awful. It lasted far too long and had no successful ending from what I remember but I have to shout out to my older friend across the road for having a drawer full of condoms at all times and being in when I left my GF in bed to run to his house to get some. :lol:
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    Decent but over very quickly :laugh:
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    It was okay - long term relationship, he was gentle and I felt comfortable. I wouldn't say I enjoyed it but it was decent.
 
 
 
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