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This girl always keeps complaining that I don't care about her, even though I've told her many times I do. She also says she will miss me once I move away (I'm moving abroad next week) and said she doesn't want me to go. My question: why would she keep asking me the same thing again and again even though I've told her I genuinely care about her? Today, she messaged me that she will miss me after I move abroad, and I said I will miss her too. Then she replied "it doesn't seem like you care about me." What's this supposed to mean? I'm befuddled.. :/
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Girls are weird and insecure. I should know. I'm a girl.
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(Original post by IFoundWonderland)
Girls are weird and insecure. I should know. I'm a girl.
I thought the same thing, lol.. I wonder if she's indirectly asking me to make her feel loved and cared for, or if she's just an attention-seeker? :/
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She probably feels like you're not giving her enough attention.
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She could just be completely insane.
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I'm honestly so annoying about things like this I read way too far into things, I think you should talk to her about, it's probably just insecurity rather than a genuine belief that you don't care about her
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(Original post by fire_and_ice)
She probably feels like you're not giving her enough attention.
But the funny thing is that we talk on WhatsApp almost every day since the last couple of days.
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But the funny thing is that we talk on WhatsApp almost every day since the last couple of days.
Have you not been speaking to her directly?
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She could just be completely insane.
That made me chuckle
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(Original post by fire_and_ice)
Have you not been speaking to her directly?
I haven't met her in person since two weeks. I should have mentioned this earlier, but I've told her before that I had feelings for her, and she had feelings for me as well.. however, things didn't go any further between us since she knows I'm moving abroad soon, and getting into a long-distance relationship wouldn't be feasible.
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Actions speak louder then words. Send flowers to her house, relationships take effort. Sounds like she needs more attention, and maybe more passion. She's not feeling special at the moment .
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