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    This girl always keeps complaining that I don't care about her, even though I've told her many times I do. She also says she will miss me once I move away (I'm moving abroad next week) and said she doesn't want me to go. My question: why would she keep asking me the same thing again and again even though I've told her I genuinely care about her? Today, she messaged me that she will miss me after I move abroad, and I said I will miss her too. Then she replied "it doesn't seem like you care about me." What's this supposed to mean? I'm befuddled.. :/
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    Girls are weird and insecure. I should know. I'm a girl.
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    (Original post by IFoundWonderland)
    Girls are weird and insecure. I should know. I'm a girl.
    I thought the same thing, lol.. I wonder if she's indirectly asking me to make her feel loved and cared for, or if she's just an attention-seeker? :/
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    She probably feels like you're not giving her enough attention.
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    She could just be completely insane.
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    I'm honestly so annoying about things like this I read way too far into things, I think you should talk to her about, it's probably just insecurity rather than a genuine belief that you don't care about her
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    (Original post by fire_and_ice)
    She probably feels like you're not giving her enough attention.
    But the funny thing is that we talk on WhatsApp almost every day since the last couple of days.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    But the funny thing is that we talk on WhatsApp almost every day since the last couple of days.
    Have you not been speaking to her directly?
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    (Original post by Joel 96)
    She could just be completely insane.
    That made me chuckle
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    (Original post by fire_and_ice)
    Have you not been speaking to her directly?
    I haven't met her in person since two weeks. I should have mentioned this earlier, but I've told her before that I had feelings for her, and she had feelings for me as well.. however, things didn't go any further between us since she knows I'm moving abroad soon, and getting into a long-distance relationship wouldn't be feasible.
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    Actions speak louder then words. Send flowers to her house, relationships take effort. Sounds like she needs more attention, and maybe more passion. She's not feeling special at the moment .
 
 
 
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