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    Me and my boyfriend of over a year tried having sex today but it didn't go very well. We had a condom and got it on fine, but after that he just couldn't get it in? Like he'd slowly push and I'd feel him and a few times it'd hurt but he wasn't going in. We tried both on top but it just wasn't working out and we couldn't see how it'll ever fit.
    He got a bit frustrated and I burst into tears for reasons I'm still not sure of and now I'm worried how we'll ever do it? Please say we're not the only ones :')

    No your not the only ones dont worry about it, it happens to most people due to nerves. The main reason why it would be hurting you would be because your not wet enough so the friction is what hurts you, try oral first to get you wet and if that doesnt work there is always lube. try to just relax i know it seems hard to do so but dont plan your first time as this will just make you more anxious.
    Hope this has helped.
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    Foreplay, lubricant, and relax. There's no hurry and it will all work out eventually. It's supposed to be fun !!
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    Yep, those are the three magic words.

    Once you've succeeded - which doesn't necessarily mean either of you coming as a result - then it will get much, much easier.
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