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    I feel so sad about it! I'm 18, 19 soon and I've never kissed anyone or had a boyfriend. I'm in my second year of uni and it's starting to weigh on me. I thought I was attractive before but now I feel so ugly. I live at home which is far from uni so meeting people isn't something I can do easily.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I feel so sad about it! I'm 18, 19 soon and I've never kissed anyone or had a boyfriend. I'm in my second year of uni and it's starting to weigh on me. I thought I was attractive before but now I feel so ugly. I live at home which is far from uni so meeting people isn't something I can do easily.
    I think this is one of the sources to your problem, perhaps you could hang out with mates after lectures(clubbbing/drinking/party or whatever) and potentially you'll meet someone?
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    Solution: stop thinking about it and work extra hard for your degree.
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    You're only 18, that's young. I know that's probably no help, but it's nonetheless true. Lots of people haven't had a relationship at 18, it really doesn't matter.
    You shouldn't need a relationship to define you. Focus on your studies, work and other things.
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    Lots of ugly people have a bf/gf.
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    any reason you haven't even *kissed* anybody, though? I've kissed countless people and I've never had a proper girlfriend/boyfriend - I've had sex with 4 people too, without having been out with anybody before (I'm 22)
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    If you PM me a picture of you I'd be happy to give an honest opinion on how you look.

    Otherwise, I dunno.. making friends at uni isn't as easy as some make it out to be. But just try to put yourself in positions where you'll meet new people.
 
 
 
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