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Need a breakaway plan from going out with this person watch

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    TL;DR... Need a perfect alibi to turn down a lady I digged initially but then towards the end I was like no way I want to go out with her she is not my type.

    This is partly my fault because I initiated the conversation, I indulged in flirtations and I expressed how we should meet again!

    And it's important I steer away from this relationship without drama because any damage done to her is damage done to a mutual friend which is unacceptable.

    The reason why I grew to dislike her is ...maybe... extremely shallow but I can't help ignoring that. It wouldn't have been a deal beaker say 3 months ago, but now it's gone to the point where I simply can't compromise.

    Lastly, please don't say tell the truth or just talk to her. That's not going to help!

    "I'm not ready for a relationship right now" is a cliche but a valid excuse.
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    (Original post by georgiaswift)
    "I'm not ready for a relationship right now" is a cliche but a valid excuse.
    Well clearly I can do a better excuse than that... I told her we will catch up this weekend for lunch. My plan is not to reciprocate whatever she says about yesterday's event. Out of this situation without a hitch.
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