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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I hope not! I have only seen websites similar to Pornhub though.
    oh lol
    (Original post by MathsAndCompSci)
    :gasp:
    hehe
    (Original post by HughMyron)
    rather than telling him about incognito, you gotta one up him. look at the type of stuff he's going on, then you go on something much more filthier.the user Mihael_Keehl mentioned hentai, I reckon that'd be a good start. if he still doesn't get the message then you go on porn right in front of him. this is about asserting dominance. think of it like a bear brushing itself against a tree.
    wow?

    hentai isn't hardcore really, rather funny.
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    (Original post by HughMyron)
    rather than telling him about incognito, you gotta one up him. look at the type of stuff he's going on, then you go on something much more filthier.the user Mihael_Keehl mentioned hentai, I reckon that'd be a good start. if he still doesn't get the message then you go on porn right in front of him. this is about asserting dominance. think of it like a bear brushing itself against a tree.
    Unfortunately, I am not that assertive and I will find it so embarrassing. I am going to try the incognito method and if that doesn't work out, I will come back here for more help

    Thank you for all your kind messages everyone!
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    (Original post by Mihael_Keehl)

    hentai isn't hardcore really, rather funny.
    I know but it's a decent start. wouldn't wanna recommend going on anything illegal or get too explicit or my post would get banned
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    (Original post by HughMyron)
    I know but it's a decent start. wouldn't wanna recommend going on anything illegal or get too explicit or my post would get banned
    oh I see
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    Send him to North Korea
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    your father needs molvi jis assistance to remove this kala jadu spell

    call molana vashikaran now
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    Buy him a iPad.
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    CTRL Shift and N.

    Your dad makes it known that he dgaf though.
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    (Original post by WoodyMKC)
    He might be doing it on purpose. Letting your sister find out for herself saves both her and him the awkwardness of the "birds and bees" conversation later down the line.
    Yeah, because teaching using porn as a ex Ed teaching aid is really useful

    Besides "this is what a penis/vagina could potentially be used for" do you really think young(er) girls should really learn about that kind of stuff? BDSM, pearl necklaces, squirting... Not really the kind of thing pre-adolescent girls should ever be exposed to.

    To OP: Incognito mode or separate user accounts for the computer sound like a good idea. Or else change the icon and name for your browser and don't let him in on the secret? When he asks where the browser's gone, you can then embarrass him by asking why he needs it Or you could run a lengthy virus scan on all computers in the house to "tie them up" and when he asks why, explain the risk of malware from dubious sites. You don't even have to mention them by name, just say you noticed your computer running slow and think something may have downloaded itself from "some suspicious website" (leave him to fill in the details himself) and because your computers are linked thought you'd better be safe than sorry, you don't want anyone stealing bank/email/FB account details. That should point out a few aspects of internet safety to him without the awkward conversations over specific browsing material
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    (Original post by tiffin_bits)
    Yeah, because teaching using porn as a ex Ed teaching aid is really useful
    Yeah, because I was making a totally genuine suggestion :rolleyes:
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    Your dad sounds computer illiterate.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Feeling a bit miserable about this actually. It's been going on for years and it's doing my head in!

    Frankly, I don't really care that he watches porn. After the initial shock and disgust (when I was 15 ), I have gotten used to the idea. What I DO care about is that he blatantly leaves all his history open and when I type in something, some gross website comes up as a suggestion

    A few minutes ago, I was scrolling through my bookmarks and saw a strange link and when clicking it, it led to a porn site. I am so disgusted by him because it meant that he watched it on MY computer (and I know it's my dad's bookmark because I saw him looking at websites when I once entered his room. He quickly closed it and I pretended I didn't see it. I have knocked since then). What's even worse is that my little sister could have been exposed to it since she uses my computer a lot and also uses my bookmarks. Thank goodness I deleted it on time!

    I don't know what to do, I am pretty pissed off at him. These days, I have been deleting his history whenever I had to use his laptop if I need it (which is very often) but I don't want to keep doing this forever. And I don't want to tell him that I know because that would be embarrassing for both is us :sad:

    TLDR; my dad doesn't clear his internet history when I have to use his laptop (I need it frequently) and I keep seeing gross links and my little sister could easily find out about this too.
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    (Original post by 90s Roadman)
    At the end of the day mate he wouldn't need to watch porn if she was putting out. Your lucky he's bothered to hang around. Potentially he could have fondled your sister...you're lucky if anything mate.
    time to log off
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    (Original post by 90s Roadman)
    Wheres your mother in all this? Sounds like she aint doing her job. If I was the dad I'd have ****ed off outta there years ago by the sound of it.
    And her "job" is?
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    (Original post by 90s Roadman)
    At the end of the day mate he wouldn't need to watch porn if she was putting out. Your lucky he's bothered to hang around. Potentially he could have fondled your sister...you're lucky if anything mate.
    Lucky? You misogynistic prick. Your attitude is sickening. Women do not exist for male pleasure and not fondling with kids is a given, not something you should be grateful for not happening. Idiot.
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    If you're using windows why not create a new user for each one of you, and make a password for his?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Feeling a bit miserable about this actually. It's been going on for years and it's doing my head in!

    Frankly, I don't really care that he watches porn. After the initial shock and disgust (when I was 15 ), I have gotten used to the idea. What I DO care about is that he blatantly leaves all his history open and when I type in something, some gross website comes up as a suggestion

    A few minutes ago, I was scrolling through my bookmarks and saw a strange link and when clicking it, it led to a porn site. I am so disgusted by him because it meant that he watched it on MY computer (and I know it's my dad's bookmark because I saw him looking at websites when I once entered his room. He quickly closed it and I pretended I didn't see it. I have knocked since then). What's even worse is that my little sister could have been exposed to it since she uses my computer a lot and also uses my bookmarks. Thank goodness I deleted it on time!

    I don't know what to do, I am pretty pissed off at him. These days, I have been deleting his history whenever I had to use his laptop if I need it (which is very often) but I don't want to keep doing this forever. And I don't want to tell him that I know because that would be embarrassing for both is us :sad:

    TLDR; my dad doesn't clear his internet history when I have to use his laptop (I need it frequently) and I keep seeing gross links and my little sister could easily find out about this too.
    Put a password... and have a long discussion about it with him..

    And OH!! DOn't forget to tell him that internet access is off limits for him for now and and that he's grounded!!
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    (Original post by ivybridge)
    And her "job" is?
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    (Original post by Duke Glacia)
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    Sorry if it's too personal but are your parents still together?
    If so tell your Mother and let her try and make him stop or perhaps do it more discreetly 😊
 
 
 
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