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I was very sick 2-3 weeks ago but my bf said he doesn t mind getting sick because he wants to be around me. He was being normal all day long on Thursday, then in the evening I got a text saying " I m sick because of you!" I apologised and said I feel bad about it. He said " you re not sorry! I really didn t want to kiss you, I knew I d get sick!" I honestly couldn t believe what I m reading! He s a smart guy and I truly love him but he s extremely stubborn and I think he likes being in control. I apologised again and he just said he s going to sleep. It s Saturday evening now and we haven t talked since then(I sent him a text saying "I hope you get better soon this" he replied with "thanks" an hour later). It s the longest we went without talking and it s very frustrating, trying to keep my calm. We are in a serious relationship and made plans for the future. From past experiences, I realised I always have to apologise first even if it wasn t my fault because I d rather say I m sorry than lose him! I m trying to be understanding because he has a lot of things happening to him atm which stress him out. I just hate being ignored and he knows it
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(Original post by Alexadani)
I was very sick 2-3 weeks ago but my bf said he doesn t mind getting sick because he wants to be around me. He was being normal all day long on Thursday, then in the evening I got a text saying " I m sick because of you!" I apologised and said I feel bad about it. He said " you re not sorry! I really didn t want to kiss you, I knew I d get sick!" I honestly couldn t believe what I m reading! He s a smart guy and I truly love him but he s extremely stubborn and I think he likes being in control. I apologised again and he just said he s going to sleep. It s Saturday evening now and we haven t talked since then(I sent him a text saying "I hope you get better soon this" he replied with "thanks" an hour later). It s the longest we went without talking and it s very frustrating, trying to keep my calm. We are in a serious relationship and made plans for the future. From past experiences, I realised I always have to apologise first even if it wasn t my fault because I d rather say I m sorry than lose him! I m trying to be understanding because he has a lot of things happening to him atm which stress him out. I just hate being ignored and he knows it
I was very sick 2-3 weeks ago but my bf said he doesn t mind getting sick because he wants to be around me. He was being normal all day long on Thursday, then in the evening I got a text saying " I m sick because of you!" I apologised and said I feel bad about it. He said " you re not sorry! I really didn t want to kiss you, I knew I d get sick!" I honestly couldn t believe what I m reading! He s a smart guy and I truly love him but he s extremely stubborn and I think he likes being in control. I apologised again and he just said he s going to sleep. It s Saturday evening now and we haven t talked since then(I sent him a text saying "I hope you get better soon this" he replied with "thanks" an hour later). It s the longest we went without talking and it s very frustrating, trying to keep my calm. We are in a serious relationship and made plans for the future. From past experiences, I realised I always have to apologise first even if it wasn t my fault because I d rather say I m sorry than lose him! I m trying to be understanding because he has a lot of things happening to him atm which stress him out. I just hate being ignored and he knows it
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Hes just frustrated...some people get cranky when they are sick give him break.. he's not going to show you attention 24/7 there is going to be times when people need alone time especially if they are sick, don't you think?. I think you're the one making a big deal out of nothing, its not like he hasn't texted you at all.. He's sick, let him be sick in peace.
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What a moron, I'd be furious if my boyfriend spoke to me like that (assuming he was being serious and not joking around). He's being an immature buffoon.
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You're right, I don't know what makes it so hard to leave him though
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