Most men only care about themselves when having sex, not caring if the women is being pleasured -that's why.. DIDD you know women orgasm when there clit is stimulated and not through penetration!! And the average time it takes for us to orgasm is like 20mins while most guys last about 5 mins -.- hmm wonder why most women aren't that keen to have sex unless they meet a guy who wants to give as much as he gets