Was this rape?

Yes of course i can but we all l ive in the real world. The law, the black and white print in books is different to real world. Now im saying to all the ladies out there, do not go and get naked with some guy if thats not what you want because it could end badly for both parties.

Also boys and girls,,do not get pished and go back to someones place when you suspect their might be a hint of passion in the air.

I have sat as a juror on a two week rape case and in the cold light of day it doesnt look good. Further on my case, the guy was found not guilty and the circs were a lot more ,err,,threatening than those described by the OP/

Now im saying to all the ladies out there, do not go and get naked with some guy if thats not what you want because it could end badly for both parties.

Also boys and girls,,do not get pished and go back to someones place when you suspect their might be a hint of passion in the air.

So if you get raped in a shower, it was your fault because you got naked with some guy?



Dear men: stop trying to get women pissed because that's the only way you can have sex with them.



Well, if it was the usual twelve person jury, he was only acquitted if ten of the jurors wanted to acquit. Were you one of the 'no more than two' who wanted to convict?

So on Saturday night, me and a few friends went out and got very very drunk, we finished up meeting some guys and one thing led to another and we finished up back at their house. I took my clothes off for the guy and we started playing around, I told him I didn't want to have sex without a condom, but he told me just try it you'll enjoy it more. we started having sex and enjoyed it at first but then I was finding it extremely painful and I was screaming out in pain, I told him 3 times to stop because he was hurting me and by this point I was crying, but he said you have to let me finish. I tried to push him off a bit but he kept going, I told him again to stop but he said I'll go gently and you'll like it but i was still in tears, I remained silent for a while as he continued, but later he said are you liking it and I felt I had to say yes,. When he finished I went to see my friend and sobbed telling her how much he'd hurt me, but I was wondering f this would count as rape seen as I had initially appeared to give consent and gave the impression of enjoying it, there were several times when we were having sex that he started biting me round my breasts and I tried to push him off but he kept going back.

Sorry but I can't let this go unchallenged. My girlfriend will soon graduate and become a top barrister and she knows the law. Rape is a man putting his penis in any orifice of a woman (or indeed a man) without that person's consent, she or he being capable of giving it (i.e. not a minor and not incapacitated, for instance through drink or drugs).

A girl who gets drunk should be able to expect a male friend to make sure she's OK. So yes, they might go back to his or her place. But that doesn't make it any less of an offence if he rapes her, in fact it's worse because he knows she can't consent and may have been part of making her drunk.

Equally a girl can begin kissing and cuddling with a guy or getting into foreplay or even sex then change her mind. If you're in the middle of having sex and the girl says 'Stop, take it out' that's what you should do. Keep going and you're a rapist.

As feminists have been saying for decades, no means no. Doesn't matter what a girl wears or does, she has an absolute right not to be raped.