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So there's a guy I've been seeing for 2 months, I like him loads. We didn't know each other atall really before we started going out, so we're kinda doing it as we go along.
Last night we were at a party, and he was so pissed off with me i went outside with him and apologised for something that happened on friday where i accidently shouted at him..for him not seeing me that day. It sounds pathetic and i dont even know why i did it.
And we got talking about us and he told me that after school he just wants to go home and its not that he doesnt wanna see me, but he likes his space. and he really likes going out with the guys (nothing that ive tried to stop) on 1 day of the weekend and seeing me on the other.
So that was sorted and we made up and everything was ok again.

Then I got stupidly drunk, and he didnt. and before he realised i was drunk i was sitting on his lap watching him play ps2 and he was all cuddling me and stuff. Then later on we were in the kitchen with other people and he definitely knew i was drunk at this point and i couldnt stop cuddling him, like all i wanted to do was cuddle him.

I was sick, and he helped me out and gave me water and stuffs

And im really not sure if ive pissed him off not. I texted him this morning and he didn't text back (not that unusual) but I'm not going to see him until tuesday briefly, so i dont know if i should request round 2 of our little chat ore just wait until i see him on the weekend? but im scared by that point if he is pissed off with me it'll be blown out of proportion.

I really just want peoples opinions on the situation. I wish i wasn't so insecure

Reply 1

Dramatic Star

Tbh, I think you may be blowing it out of proportion just a little bit. Like you said, you already know he likes to spend time on his own & with mates which is fine as some guys are like that! We all need our own space. It has only been 24 hours, I wouldn't worry about it. If he hasn't contacted by tomorrow- just ring him and if he sounds pissed off ask him then.

Reply 2

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I doubt he'll even mention it. :smile:

Reply 3

Saffie

were you drunk when you shouted at him too?

apologise by text, tell him you're not going to drink as much again and actually try to drink less from now on. why dont you ring him?

Reply 4

Montrose

If you're worried, communicate with him! I;m sure it's nothing though.

Reply 5

MissyP

lack of communation is the reason people break up.

just send one text saying sorry etc and leave it at that as if you start texting and phoning he'll feel like your nagging him so just give him his space and he'll get back to you when he is ready.

Reply 6

HereFishyFishy

Wait until tomorrow. Credit issues, might be busy - there's tons of reasons why he might not be responding.

Of course, you might want to take note of his 'space' thing. It is possible he saw you as a little clingy as the party, but I'm sure he understands it was the drink. He was being nice and receptive too, which suggests he can't have been too bothered by it.

I'd just relax and wait for him to contact you :smile:

Reply 7

FireDeuce

See that's my predicament.
I want to talk to him and sort it out.
But I dont want to piss him off by being like "are you pissed off with me?" "lets talk" blah blah
So really i want to leave it for a better time to sort out. but thats next weekend, which is long.
I'm gunna see him for like 2 seconds tomorrow (possibly) but itll be hard to guage if hes really pissed off with me then.
Argh. I'm so scared of losing him I just want to play to his beat. I was lying in bed this morning like...**** hes gunna break up with me, i bet he wants to break up.
But i dont even know if hes pissed off with me. I'm horrible at relationships.