To start I'm 19 years old and I can't stand living with my dad anymore and I don't know what to do.
My dad is using my card to pay for the water bill. He puts money into my account to pay for it but is mostly always late and we've almost had CCJs in my name - which would mean me going to court even though I don't pay for the water bill, as well as giving me a bad credit score.
As well as this I know he has frauded other stuff, serious stuff.
This is putting so much pressure on me but I don't want to get him into trouble even though I may get into trouble some day.
I'm looking for jobs and have had some interviews but I still haven't got a job - even if I did I don't think I'd have the money to move out.
The arguments between us in this house are massive and I think the next one I will pack all of my stuff and go to my mother's though I know she doesn't want me there, this would also cause a lot of problems as my mum and dad do not get on and I feel he would make my life a living hell.
I just don't know what to do anymore, I am so depressed and have no one to talk to.
... I just don't know what to do? In some ways I just feel like I should deal with it but I don't know how much more I can take.
I don't know what it would be like living with my mother either. If she didn't want me living there I think I would have to declare myself homeless - which would mean me explaining why I can't live my dad - which would get him into trouble.
Does anyone have advice?
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- 02-02-2016 02:44
- 02-02-2016 07:47
If you really want to move out, get a job with at least 2 days a week so you can pay for room and have money for basic needs such as food, clothing, etc.
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