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Original post by Anonymous
Be in charge yes yes yes almost a little selfish. Sometimes (usually on my period) I can feel a little dominant though, like I'd just want him to relax and let me do everything to either 1. Use him for my own pleasure or 2. Make him vulnerable to me cause of how good I'm making him feel and just see him enjoy it so much and feel weak for once lol really drive him crazy.


You'd do that while on your period? I thought having sex while on your period was disgusting and most/all women hated it?

Vulnerability... Hmm... Sounds like fun. Make it into some kind of escape and revenge scene.
Original post by Anonymous
Erm. What the. I don't like either of these (spanked = NO, tied to a bed =no ). Dominant = yes. I like other things but they're more "filthy" than almost abusively dominant like you're suggesting. Really hate spanking!

Couldn't agree more, spanking really makes me cringe, probably has something to do with the connotations of childhood?
Original post by whatssarcasm?
You can't really complain then! The majority of girls love that sort of thing


But what hapoens when it grows so deep I sound like a Tuba when I speak? XD
Original post by Tinemither
But what hapoens when it grows so deep I sound like a Tuba when I speak? XD

I'm sure you'll find a girl somewhere who's into it :adore: :wink: haha
Original post by whatssarcasm?
I'm sure you'll find a girl somewhere who's into it :adore: :wink: haha


Have you ever fallen for a guy you initially rejected ?


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Original post by whatssarcasm?
I'm sure you'll find a girl somewhere who's into it :adore: :wink: haha


Related question for you then - Would you be turned off by a guy with a really deep voice?
Original post by MR.ANONYMOUS 786
Have you ever fallen for a guy you initially rejected ?


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I've never fallen for a guy fullstop but what I will say is that a couple of guys who I've initially despised or just wasn't really bothered about have persisted with me and they've sort of grown on me but not to the point where I could be with them
Original post by Anonymous
Erm. What the. I don't like either of these (spanked = NO, tied to a bed =no ). Dominant = yes. I like other things but they're more "filthy" than almost abusively dominant like you're suggesting. Really hate spanking!


ok since youre anon what filthy stuff you talking about
Original post by Tinemither
Related question for you then - Would you be turned off by a guy with a really deep voice?

Most probably not, maybe if it was freakishly deep yeah but other than that, doubt it!
Original post by Unistudent77
Yeah, got you. Fair enough.

That's cool. Each to their own. Rough sex could involve some brusing, perhaps a touch of pain at times (obviously shouldn't be ACTUALLY painful) too...

See i'm on the fence... On the one hand, i'm like yeah a touch cringe but.... Being honest here. If some girl i fancied was semi-naked and she said 'Can you f*** me daddy?', '**** me harder daddy' or spank me etc.... 2.45 milliseconds would transpire before i became a testosterone fuelled animal and duly did what she asked.
Probably is a turn on tbh, all depends on the context.

Fair enough. I think you need real trust for that... Same with anal etc.
If you really trust him then you'd maybe relax enough to love it.
Ultimately, the girl must enjoy the intimidation/feeling of being scared a bit in order to want me to tie her up etc.

I know girls who were really inexperienced (never touched themselves, never saw the need for sex etc) say that they realised they liked being scared when with me. They liked when i took my top off and had muscle etc and wondered what i was going to do etc.

It's a fine line tbh. I'm not aggressive as a person, i hate offending anyone so i had to learn that they really wanted me to be a bit of a d*** and aggressive during sex.

See i'm not really into submissive sex but i'm game for most things. I don't mind her having control at times too :smile:


I am fine with rough sex as long as most of the roughness is coming from his hips, being aggressive with his dick if that makes sense not so much his hands. Even crave it sometimes.

A lot of guys like a little cringey/fake stuff and it makes me lol but they genuinely do. They find it difficult to tell what's real or not or they just ignore that it's fake lmao like when they watch majority of porn. **** me harder is natural thing to say (minus the daddy bit for me) and would probably even escape a girls mouth by accident, even "damn I want you to **** me so bad" if that's genuinely how she's feeling so that's not fake etc etc. more likely though these things I say to myself in my head when im really turned on by a guy but wouldn't say cause of how cringey it sounds.

I guess. Maybe because I'm more about pleasing the guy than getting him to please me. Or making sure he's satisfied with what he's doing with me (majority of the time this is what turns me on). I don't think you're as 90% dominant as you think you are lol tying up the girl and "serving her" hmmm lol sounds like alot of submission hidden behind in the dominance of tying her up.

I guess but I am not one of those girls lol I do see the importance and feel a need for sex. I think I 60% know what I want and the 40 will come from more experience.

Lol "hate offending someone" I like a guy that's a little more doesn't really care about offending too much and will makes joke etc but nice to me specifically haha.

I get turned on by thinking of a guy being a bit of a dick but ONLY During sex. I like the idea of him using me and being selfish for himself during sex but only if I know he already likes me forreal outside of sex. Like wife in streets but his bitch in the sheets perfectly describes this.

I think you'd enjoy submissive more if you engaged in it. What I'm really referring to is not that submissive for the guy to much and I don't want him todo what I say" and order him around etc but it's more dominance out of submission for him, like serving him but without him asking and really making him weak for me. Also any time you ever got a blowjob, that was you being submissive lol unless the whole blowjob was not really her blowing but was you ****ing out her mouth.
Original post by Proxenus
ok since youre anon what filthy stuff you talking about


Why don't YOU suggest what filthy stuff you like and then ask me whether I like the idea or not, it's a quick yes/no/maybe tbh.
Original post by Tinemither
You'd do that while on your period? I thought having sex while on your period was disgusting and most/all women hated it?

Vulnerability... Hmm... Sounds like fun. Make it into some kind of escape and revenge scene.


Yea I wouldn't want him in me whilst on my period although the I supposed when it's less heavy flow you could do things in the shower.
Also, girls are typically Hornier in their period so we do actually crave it a lot more but I'm guessing our hygiene standards overcome this - plus so many other things you can do.

Vulnerability yes it sounds like it could be a lot of fun for the guy. I think it's very cute sometimes how much his desire for sexual things can make him so vulnerable to a female lol.
Not sure what you mean by escape and revenge... ?
Original post by Anonymous
Yea I wouldn't want him in me whilst on my period although the I supposed when it's less heavy flow you could do things in the shower.
Also, girls are typically Hornier in their period so we do actually crave it a lot more but I'm guessing our hygiene standards overcome this - plus so many other things you can do.

Vulnerability yes it sounds like it could be a lot of fun for the guy. I think it's very cute sometimes how much his desire for sexual things can make him so vulnerable to a female lol.
Not sure what you mean by escape and revenge... ?


You seem to really know your stuff. I am far too innocent and naïve for this xD
What alternatives? I mean... I know she could do the others. But there's not much he can do without running into a barrier, right?

I guess you're right. You've got a partner to do this with, I assume? Not that the information is of any use :3
Let's say you tied him up. He undoes the rope while you're not looking, or when you leave his nude body lying there. Upon you returning, he jumps you and pins you. That sort of revenge and escape :3
Original post by Anonymous
Why don't YOU suggest what filthy stuff you like and then ask me whether I like the idea or not, it's a quick yes/no/maybe tbh.


i might get judged so i have to say it somewhere else
Original post by RomanKing
'sluts' are the best


For you to use, yeah.
Original post by Tinemither
You seem to really know your stuff. I am far too innocent and naïve for this xD
What alternatives? I mean... I know she could do the others. But there's not much he can do without running into a barrier, right?

I guess you're right. You've got a partner to do this with, I assume? Not that the information is of any use :3
Let's say you tied him up. He undoes the rope while you're not looking, or when you leave his nude body lying there. Upon you returning, he jumps you and pins you. That sort of revenge and escape :3


I don't know my stuff because I'm inexperienced/virgin but I'm female so I have first experience of emotions/how I think obviously. Although "articulate" about many things I've been told I can be naive so idk.
Also, I think about things, just things in general alot so I have lots of ideas.

trying to imagine a boy that's genuinely innocent and I don't think I can lol, how old are you?

lol undoes the rope that'd be funny, and yes I'd like that.

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Original post by Proxenus
i might get judged so i have to say it somewhere else


should've gone anon.
Original post by Anonymous
should've gone anon.


i can tell you elsewhere if you want
Original post by Proxenus
i can tell you elsewhere if you want


i'm fine thanks
[QUOTE=Anonymous;63526225]I am fine with rough sex as long as most of the roughness is coming from his hips, being aggressive with his dick if that makes sense not so much his hands. Even crave it sometimes.

A lot of guys like a little cringey/fake stuff and it makes me lol but they genuinely do. They find it difficult to tell what's real or not or they just ignore that it's fake lmao like when they watch majority of porn. **** me harder is natural thing to say (minus the daddy bit for me) and would probably even escape a girls mouth by accident, even "damn I want you to **** me so bad" if that's genuinely how she's feeling so that's not fake etc etc. more likely though these things I say to myself in my head when im really turned on by a guy but wouldn't say cause of how cringey it sounds.

I guess. Maybe because I'm more about pleasing the guy than getting him to please me. Or making sure he's satisfied with what he's doing with me (majority of the time this is what turns me on). I don't think you're as 90% dominant as you think you are lol tying up the girl and "serving her" hmmm lol sounds like alot of submission hidden behind in the dominance of tying her up.

I guess but I am not one of those girls lol I do see the importance and feel a need for sex. I think I 60% know what I want and the 40 will come from more experience.

Lol "hate offending someone" I like a guy that's a little more doesn't really care about offending too much and will makes joke etc but nice to me specifically haha.

I get turned on by thinking of a guy being a bit of a dick but ONLY During sex. I like the idea of him using me and being selfish for himself during sex but only if I know he already likes me forreal outside of sex. Like wife in streets but his bitch in the sheets perfectly describes this.

I think you'd enjoy submissive more if you engaged in it. What I'm really referring to is not that submissive for the guy to much and I don't want him todo what I say" and order him around etc but it's more dominance out of submission for him, like serving him but without him asking and really making him weak for me. Also any time you ever got a blowjob, that was you being submissive lol unless the whole blowjob was not really her blowing but was you ****ing out her mouth.

Firstly, have i talked to you before? I feel like there are a few people whi i'ce talked to who you could be but no real idea... And dw, i won't try and guess if i have.

Makes sense. I think rough sex for me is more hands than what you describe. As long as you are open with the guy before it then you're good. Just be open and have trust is what i say. Have an open, frank discussion. That can be through text if it's too 'cringe' but i think it's good to have boundaries and know what each other likes...

Agree 100% about the fake nature of porn. I agree also the 'daddy' bit could be fake but i think some girls are genuine with it.

You should be less self conscience and go with your gut. All guys will love it if you encourage him to **** you harder :smile:

I don't ask her to make noise etc, usually she is doing that by herself but not for 'me' if you like. Moaning, heavy breathing, grabbing me etc etc is enough, then she'll wail as she gets closer, shouting my name at certain points, grabbing onto stuff tightly and at the point of orgasm she can go quieter for a time. Depends on the girl really but pirn portrays it like she'll just get louder and louder forever basically which is very fake and staged.

Ok, i meant submissive in a different way then. I accept i'm about pleasing her so yes i'm submissive to an extent.
I agree on your very last point about BJs. I am submissive then too, is she wakes me up with a BJ then i'm very submissive at that point in time...

I meant 'hate offending people' in the context of rough sex lol.
I will make jokes and be a bit harsh on occasion. I'm not a 'nice guy' all of the time but i would never take it too far and yes, i'd be too nice to my girl probably haha. #whipped haha jk, jk.

'Wife in the streets, bitch in the streets' i like that one a lot haha.

Ok i get you. Yes, i'll happily be submissive out of dominance as you put it.


[QUOTE=Anonymous;63526697]i'm fine thanks

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