what should i doabout him? sorry for the rant

Hey this is going to be abit of a rant so im sorry in advance.

so i came back from uni yesterday from easter and was really excited be seeing my boyfried and friends none of whom i had been able to see for the entire holidays due to working, messed up trains and my parents moving. anyway so my boyfriend phoned me and said are you going to the bar and i said in abit im going to have a drink with my friends then i will come met you. so after 30 min he come looking for me and basically starts and argument with me which then ended up in a huge shouting match outside that anyone could hear. it basically ended in him calling me a ****ing bi*ch and saying some really hurtful things. while we had both been drinking that really shouldn't have happened right? he then has the check to send me a text message saying sorry i didnt mean it. thing is i get these sorry texts so often they mean nothing. so in order to deal with it i got very very drunk so much that my friend had to stay in my room with me to make me i was ok. so i have now woken up this morning with the worst hangover ever and no idea what to do. please help!!

Reply 1

ßlαcksωαn

17

We were both drinking, he was upset he hasn't seen you in a while, he is a pussy for not apologising in person, talk things through, move on.

Reply 2

decky1989

1

forgive him. I'm sure he's is feeling just as bad today. i know being that being drunk is no excuse for his behaviour but everyone does stupid stuff while under the influence! :biggrin:

just leave it and let him make the first move and see how things go. it would be easier if you just forget all about it! :smile:

Reply 3

Yoda

12

Have a go at him while he's got a hangover then forgive him later.

Reply 4

Misogynist

18

You did nothing wrong, He was being ridiculous. Break up.

Reply 5

joz12345

1

forgive him he was probs just excited and wanted to see you as soon as and when he realised youd rather see ur friends first probs hurt his stupid male ego. talk face to face im sure you can sort it all out

Reply 6

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3

Why

You did nothing wrong, He was being ridiculous. Break up.

A little extreme don't you think? He probably just really missed her while she's been at uni and over-reacted to being told to wait while she saw her friends, he was a bit of a dick but its nothing that can't be sorted out by talking to him.

Reply 7

Yoda

12

*knowitall*

You made it absolutely clear he comes second to your friends.

He doesn't like that.

You need to say sorry if that's the way it looked (unless it's true!)

Yoda shall remind all of the saying "bros before hoes". Despite not following it himself.

Reply 8

DaChronik

Yoda

*knowitall*

You made it absolutely clear he comes second to your friends.

He doesn't like that.

You need to say sorry if that's the way it looked (unless it's true!)

Yoda shall remind all of the saying "bros before hoes". Despite not following it himself.

LOL! Hell yeah! But one point... she aint a bro! And he hopefully aint her hoe...

But *knowitall* has got it in one... Thats the reason... Jus take it as he really does care about you, thats why he got pissed off... Say sorry to him, and hell love you for it...

Edit: DONT BREAK UP! (unless ur stupid) ull regret it later lol

Reply 9

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3

Right...it means friends before boyfriend/girlfriend.

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Reply 10

elyse180887

OP

1

thing is i had already seen him that afternoon for ages. an this isnt a 1st time thing either. over the holidays i got really horrible text messages from him for not answering my phone. the fact that i was driving so couldnt have answered it didnt matter. i really dont know what to say to him if i bump into him today.

Reply 11

DaChronik

3232

Right...it means friends before boyfriend/girlfriend.

....

I KNO I KNOOO!!! God I was joking...

Ermmm I think your jus gonna have confront him about it, if you dont like it... Tell him (in the nicest way possible) that you dont want him to do it anymore, If he keeps doing it... U know what to do... lol

Reply 12

*knowitall*

You're fired...

Reply 13

DaChronik

*knowitall*

You're fired...

Me? lol ;grin;

Reply 14

username47781

20

You are perfectly entitled to see your friends, he should not be dictating what you should be doing.

Reply 15

DaChronik

Btw elyse180887 let me know how it goes... Im quite interested to see if he stops being a dick (lol) x

Reply 16

HereFishyFishy

13

Personally, if my boyfriend did that it would really piss me off. Not to dumping point, but I'd have a good talk with him. If he doesn't start controlling his temper and jealousy I think I'd say bye bye boyfriend.

Reply 17

elyse180887

OP

1

well i haven't seen him today but i have been in my room for most of it so that might explain why. its really hard as my friends are obvoiusly biased to me saying he was completely out of order etc etc but i just really dont know what to do still. i have tried talking to him about it in the past but clearly to no effect andto be honest him saying sorry is almost becoming as frequent as saying hi or hello to people!

Reply 18

Kagutsuchi

20

He was just a being a huge prick

Reply 19

username47781

20

elyse180887

well i haven't seen him today but i have been in my room for most of it so that might explain why. its really hard as my friends are obvoiusly biased to me saying he was completely out of order etc etc but i just really dont know what to do still. i have tried talking to him about it in the past but clearly to no effect andto be honest him saying sorry is almost becoming as frequent as saying hi or hello to people!

Well your friends are right, he was well out of order. If he's done this sort of thing before and you've told him, then i'd consider finishing it if he does it again, which he probably will.

what should i doabout him? sorry for the rant

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