Could be mistaken, and don’t want to offend anyone, but I'd be surprised if many of those posting ‘no’ meet with the following relevant criteria:
• Finished with their studies/21+ (marriageable age)
• Curvy and able to attract alpha males with whom they can form stable relations (guys who inspire broody feelings)
• Totally straight (naturally aligned with the desire/capacity to mate)
• Not ardent feminists (naturally disposed to being open minded about playing feminine/maternal gender roles)
Someone’s changed her tune
Only beta guys will tend to be prepared to marry a girl who isn’t committed to raising a family with him – it’s ostensively the reason matrimony exists after all (despite whatever hippies/atheists may tell you)
Due to infant health concerns?
Has someone proposed/is someone going to?
You’d have kiddywinkles out of wedlock?
Being a productive/pro-social member of society and/or enhancing the quality of the lives of those close to you wouldn’t be enough? Either of those things are enough for me; indeed just having my health is something I consider a blessing, and I look upon creating life as something of a bonus, and protecting/cultivating thge young, a
very serious responsibility (I’m old fashioned like that)
I feel you on the monies front, but it need not be all that expensive. My ex-best mate had a wedding on the cheap, with the reception at our place, and good times were had by all