My boyfriend wont touch me??

We have sex and I'll sometimes give him a handjob or a blowjob but he refuses to touch my down there area and I don't understand why. Its coming to a point where I have to "play" with myself prior to sex just so I can enjoy it. I've talked to him about it and he tells me he would feel awkward touching me and wouldn't know what to do?? I told him I'd teach him but he just wants to get to the point and have sex??

Other than that he IS a great guy etc its just this one aspect about our sex life really kinda annoys me :frown:

Should I just put up with it??

Reply 1

yoda123

15

No he is being selfish and not putting in any effort to please you. He's not even willing to try. Don't give him any sexual favours

Reply 2

dairychocolate

11

Don't know how this is even possible.

My head is like a meat-seeking missile that heads straight between a girl's legs.

Reply 3

Katarvi

15

He's not even trying to make an effort. Next time he wants to make use of your hand or your mouth, use the same bull**** excuse that he does. There are two people in your relationship, not one. Tell him he isn't satisfying you sexually, that might make him buck up his ideas.

Reply 4

trapking

20

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On a serious note, wtf what kind of even guy does that ffs

Reply 5

TheArtofProtest

2

Something fishy is going on.

Reply 6

King Scorchy

10

Just demand that he does it! He's supposed to be a man.

Original post by dairychocolate

My head is like a meat-seeking missile that heads straight between a girl's legs.

Original post by Katarvi

Next time he wants to make use of your hand or your mouth

I laughed.

Reply 7

Tempest II

16

Original post by Anonymous

We have sex and I'll sometimes give him a handjob or a blowjob but he refuses to touch my down there area and I don't understand why. Its coming to a point where I have to "play" with myself prior to sex just so I can enjoy it. I've talked to him about it and he tells me he would feel awkward touching me and wouldn't know what to do?? I told him I'd teach him but he just wants to get to the point and have sex??

Other than that he IS a great guy etc its just this one aspect about our sex life really kinda annoys me :frown:

Should I just put up with it??

How old is your boyfriend? It seems very strange how he's like that. I'd say 90%+ of guys would happily touch down there for you.

Reply 8

Anonymous #1

OP

Original post by Tempest II

How old is your boyfriend? It seems very strange how he's like that. I'd say 90%+ of guys would happily touch down there for you.

he's 21 and I'm 19

if he won't, I will?

Original post by dairychocolate

Don't know how this is even possible.

My head is like a meat-seeking missile that heads straight between a girl's legs.

this made my night ! LOL

Reply 11

IFoundWonderland

19

This is weird :undefined:

erm

Guys always seem to want to go straight there, even after like a minute of kissing :undefined:

facepalm

What a piss poor excuse.

Reply 12

TheonlyMrsHolmes

19

That is just weird, why wouldn't he want to touch you there? Maybe he doesn't understand the anatomy XD In that case, teach him. If it doesn't work, throw him away and find someone who appreciates vagina. :u:

Reply 13

Tempest II

16

Original post by Anonymous

he's 21 and I'm 19

I'd have thought but 21 he'd have matured. If he was 16 maybe I could understand.
As bad as this sounds, you should probably withdraw sex from him until he does want to touch you down there. Foreplay can be incredibly fun. Show him techniques off the Internet if necessary (not porn).