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    There is a girl in my class who is really attractive and I like her. She may have displayed some signs that she likes me but that's not what I wanted to talk about.

    This girl has had a history of talking crap behind people's back, being manipulative and spreading stuff about others. I've seen both sides of her personality myself so I know I'm not just going by hearsay.

    She hasn't done it to me personally, well, i don't know that for sure, but as far as I know she's really friendly to me and we haven't had any issues together. In fact I'd say she's more nice to me than most of her friends with the way she talks and behaves to me. But I feel that with the way she has behaved to others, that I can't really trust her in telling her things that I'd want to.

    Is that good enough grounds to dissuade me from asking her out or am I being unreasonable?
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    Why do you like her if she is, by your own words, manipulative and untrustworthy? Is this really the type of person you wish to date?

    It's up to you if you think it's something you would be able to handle or not. Maybe try just getting to know her more one on one and see how it progresses? Just be cautious til you know her a lot better.
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    (Original post by Katarvi)
    Why do you like her if she is, by your own words, manipulative and untrustworthy? Is this really the type of person you wish to date?

    It's up to you if you think it's something you would be able to handle or not. Maybe try just getting to know her more one on one and see how it progresses? Just be cautious til you know her a lot better.
    She's just really pretty and we do get along, but it's the other aspects of her personality that just gets me concerned
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    She's just really pretty and we do get along, but it's the other aspects of her personality that just gets me concerned
    Then like I said get to know her a bit more but be cautious about trusting her for the time being. You won't know until you spend more time with her.
 
 
 
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