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    (Original post by mkap)
    i know the feeling haha, unfortunately it all happens after midnight
    I'll be back then to lurk
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    (Original post by trapking)
    Hahahaha dump his lame ass. If you've talked to him about it and you have let him know that youre not happy then he should start changing. If he isnt changing then youre obviously not happy in this relationship and this will probably lead to you cheating with someone else in which case i would say its best to end it (but only after you have tried all you can to voice your concerns).


    It really puzzles me how some guys can be like this though. Why have sex in the same position all the frigging time and be all lazy. I would be throwing my partner around, chocking her, having that sensual hot passionate sex that drives her wild
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    To be honest, you've been together 4 years and i assume having sex for a large part of that. If you've already talked to him, i cant see him changing now after all this time.
    You have to think realistically about whether in the long run, not being satisified sexually is too big a thing or not. For me personally, i dont think i could be with someone who isnt sexually compatable with me. If my boyfriend didn't want to go down on me or at least spice it up a bit, i genuinely think this would lead to enough problems in the long run that we would break up.
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    (Original post by trapking)
    Hahahaha dump his lame ass. If you've talked to him about it and you have let him know that youre not happy then he should start changing. If he isnt changing then youre obviously not happy in this relationship and this will probably lead to you cheating with someone else in which case i would say its best to end it (but only after you have tried all you can to voice your concerns).


    It really puzzles me how some guys can be like this though. Why have sex in the same position all the frigging time and be all lazy. I would be throwing my partner around, chocking her, having that sensual hot passionate sex that drives her wild
    Lol u sound wilddd n funn
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    (Original post by Daniellaaa)
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    Lol u sound wilddd n funn
    Ladies pls

    Whose coming to my afterparty?
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    (Original post by trapking)
    Ladies pls

    Whose coming to my afterparty?
    You should pick wisely
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    (Original post by Daniellaaa)
    You should pick wisely
    Depends which one of you is more nasty & has the best "assets"...

    im ngl latinas doe....me gustas :sexface:
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    Let's have none of this "sexual compatibility" nonsense like it's some mystical property we've got no control over.


    OP's boyfriend is clearly selfish and largely interested in his own pleasure. It sounds like he's treating sex like some form of masturbation where you just happen to be there.


    Either that or he's a bit new/ignorant of sexual mores but that's unlikely to be the case if you've been together for 4 years.


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