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    Holy **** this is ****ing brutal :toofunny:
    I've heard similar things about them too sorry you had to go through with that :cry:
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    (Original post by Jack22031994)
    That actually happened?
    sadly it did

    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Holy **** this is ****ing brutal :toofunny:
    I've heard similar things about them too sorry you had to go through with that :cry:
    sorry i had to be
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    (Original post by Gwynbleiidd)
    Okay, so firstly this is clearly aimed at me as you took a direct quote from something I've written, so no need to beat around the bush.

    Secondly, if you can provide very clear evidence that I conduct this alleged behavior then by all means I'm sure the CT would love to see it. As it stands, I can only think of three regular female members of the community I've spoken to privately within the last few months, and that's Fermion, CheeseIsVeg and Nirvana1989-1994. I barely talk to anyone as it is. I very rarely message girls on this site. Like, extremely rare, though it just so happens I've had two initiate conversation with me recently. I like to make friends on here, nothing more.

    Aside from one very brief "fling", if you would even call it that, my statement is wholly accurate; I have never been sexually or romantically interested in anyone here.

    I don't want any sympathy here. What I would have liked, for a time, is some help in resolving my issues...but since the majority of TSR users lack empathy or the ability to support others, I gave up in that respect.

    Also, not only have I never sent a **** pic on TSR but if I had then you'd know a microscope would be completely unnecessary. Seriously; my identity is plastered on this website and you actually think I would engage in such vile, disgusting behavior?

    So I can hazard a few guesses; this is just Tingtox picking a new target, another troll, one member who's part of a social group who dislike me for some inexplicably reason, or some other pleb. Given aside from a few individuals literally nobody here "knows what I'm like", because sadly they don't take the opportunity to get to know me and instead just make false assumptions based on hearsay.
    Its not ttingtox. I know who this is and the user PM'ed me telling me to stop talking to you and stay away from you because you sexually harass girls :/
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    (Original post by Gwynbleiidd)
    Okay, so firstly this is clearly aimed at me as you took a direct quote from something I've written, so no need to beat around the bush.

    Secondly, if you can provide very clear evidence that I conduct this alleged behavior then by all means I'm sure the CT would love to see it. As it stands, I can only think of three regular female members of the community I've spoken to privately within the last few months, and that's Fermion, CheeseIsVeg and Nirvana1989-1994. I barely talk to anyone as it is. I very rarely message girls on this site. Like, extremely rare, though it just so happens I've had two initiate conversation with me recently. I like to make friends on here, nothing more.

    Aside from one very brief "fling", if you would even call it that, my statement is wholly accurate; I have never been sexually or romantically interested in anyone here.

    I don't want any sympathy here. What I would have liked, for a time, is some help in resolving my issues...but since the majority of TSR users lack empathy or the ability to support others, I gave up in that respect.

    Also, not only have I never sent a **** pic on TSR but if I had then you'd know a microscope would be completely unnecessary. Seriously; my identity is plastered on this website and you actually think I would engage in such vile, disgusting behavior?

    So I can hazard a few guesses; this is just Tingtox picking a new target, another troll, one member who's part of a social group who dislike me for some inexplicably reason, or some other pleb. Given aside from a few individuals literally nobody here "knows what I'm like", because sadly they don't take the opportunity to get to know me and instead just make false assumptions based on hearsay.
    You've certainly never been creepy to me or sent me a **** pic lol. What is anon on? :rofl:
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    (Original post by Fermion.)
    Its not ttingtox. I know who this is and the user PM'ed me telling me to stop talking to you and stay away from you because you sexually harass girls :/
    I won't ask who the user is, but if you can report them to CT that would be appreciated. Their accusations are false.
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    (Original post by Gwynbleiidd)
    I won't ask who the user is, but if you can report them to CT that would be appreciated. Their accusations are false.
    But they are quite a regular user here and arent a fake troll account either. Why would they make these accusations?
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    (Original post by Fermion.)
    But they are quite a regular user here and arent a fake troll account either. Why would they make these accusations?
    I literally have no idea. I can only assume I've annoyed them at some point and thus this is a way to get back at me. There are a number of regulars here who just talk plain **** about me both on and offsite. Like seriously; when I say I come here to help others and make new friends, that's what I do; I'm quite upset about these accusations and wish people would stop being cruel. 'n let's be fair, you know what that's like also.

    Look, I'm going to work with the staff on this to clear my name, and in necessary I'll contact the police because this is not on. All I ask is people judge me by their own merit and not what some vindictive individual spreading rumors has to say.
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    (Original post by Gwynbleiidd)
    I literally have no idea. I can only assume I've annoyed them at some point and thus this is a way to get back at me. There are a number of regulars here who just talk plain **** about me both on and offsite. Like seriously; when I say I come here to help others and make new friends, that's what I do; I'm quite upset about these accusations and wish people would stop being cruel. 'n let's be fair, you know what that's like also.

    Look, I'm going to work with the staff on this to clear my name, and in necessary I'll contact the police because this is not on. All I ask is people judge me by their own merit and not what some vindictive individual spreading rumors has to say.
    I want to contact the police regarding the suicidal death threats that I was given all night last night and this morning but I dont know how to go about with it or thats what I should even do. Also, how do I get in contact with the CT. The mods dont do anything or listen to me
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    lol
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    (Original post by Fermion.)
    I want to contact the police regarding the suicidal death threats that I was given all night last night and this morning but I dont know how to go about with it or thats what I should even do. Also, how do I get in contact with the CT. The mods dont do anything or listen to me
    https://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/for...lay.php?f=1215

    Hope that helps.
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    (Original post by Gwynbleiidd)
    I literally have no idea. I can only assume I've annoyed them at some point and thus this is a way to get back at me. There are a number of regulars here who just talk plain **** about me both on and offsite. Like seriously; when I say I come here to help others and make new friends, that's what I do; I'm quite upset about these accusations and wish people would stop being cruel. 'n let's be fair, you know what that's like also.

    Look, I'm going to work with the staff on this to clear my name, and in necessary I'll contact the police because this is not on. All I ask is people judge me by their own merit and not what some vindictive individual spreading rumors has to say.
    I'd advise you to make a thread in AtCT highlighting your concerns about this issue. They will then investigate and the user(s) who are putting these serious allegations forward will be asked to make a compelling case. If they fail, as you are expecting, then they will be given a firm reprimand. Remember: allegations of this nature are taken very seriously.

    The matter should first be referred to the CT as they can then recommend further action on the basis of what has been said or done. They will also work with the authorities if necessary.

    I hope this helps.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'd advise you to make a thread in AtCT highlighting your concerns about this issue. They will then investigate and the user(s) who are putting these serious allegations forward will be asked to make a compelling case. If they fail, as you are expecting, then they will be given a firm reprimand. Remember: allegations of this nature are taken very seriously.

    The matter should first be referred to the CT as they can then recommend further action on the basis of what has been said or done. They will also work with the authorities if necessary.

    I hope this helps.
    Have done so, thank you anon.
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    Dear you,

    Idk what is going on in your life, but trust me i know what's it's like to be judged and i would never do that.
    I think i really understand you. But i can't say for sure.
    I'd like to say a really big thanks. I like you You're really sweet and caring. Thanks for making me feel better.
    Don't give a **** of what others say. Say what you feel, be what you want because those who mind don't matter, but those who don't mind are the ones who matter.

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    No this is a quote i'm not that positive to say that myself. NGL that's made me feel better. Typing this. hmm

    wishing you happiness
    Hopefully you got a notif Wasn't sure if you wanted me to leave the tag


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    Dear noone
    I wanna cry and cry and cry and cry
    Til there's no tears left
    Then just sit there all numb
    Doing nothing
    Until i fade away
    Or until someone takes mercy
    And just ends this misery
    Because this feels like... hell.
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    (Original post by starfab)
    Dear noone
    I wanna cry and cry and cry and cry
    Til there's no tears left
    Then just sit there all numb
    Doing nothing
    Until i fade away
    Or until someone takes mercy
    And just ends this misery
    Because this feels like... hell.
    :hugs: i hope you're okay
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    (Original post by starfab)
    Dear noone
    I wanna cry and cry and cry and cry
    Til there's no tears left
    Then just sit there all numb
    Doing nothing
    Until i fade away
    Or until someone takes mercy
    And just ends this misery
    Because this feels like... hell.
    Dear you,

    Is duniya mein..

    Agar azaab hai to jannat bhi hai
    Agar dua maangne waale hai toh dua poore karne waale bhi hai
    Agar sarhadein hai toh khule raaste bhi hai.

    Lekin aapko pata hai ke in sarhado ko kya kehte hai?

    Darr.

    Lekin ye kaisa darr hai? Kis baat ka darr hai?

    Soch ke batana.

    Kyun ke is darr se azaad ho kar hi hum zindagi jee sakte hai.

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    If there is hell in this world, there's also heaven. If there are people who pray, then there are people who make prayers come true. If there are open doors, then there are also borders.

    Do you know the name for these borders? Fear.

    But what kind of fear is this? And a fear of what?

    Just try and think about it. We can only live life if we get rid of fear.


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    (Original post by starfab)
    Dear noone
    I wanna cry and cry and cry and cry
    Til there's no tears left
    Then just sit there all numb
    Doing nothing
    Until i fade away
    Or until someone takes mercy
    And just ends this misery
    Because this feels like... hell.

    :console: I'm here.
    It's all gonna be okay. Shh
    Let me give you a big fat tight hug :jumphug: shh
    I've heard tears are prayers too. They travel to God when we can't speak.
    But you've cried enough, Inshallah those prayers get answered. Stop crying now
    Wipe those tear.
    Those tears are like pearls made of diamond for me.
    Don't waste them.
    They are precious just like you are, my lovely baaji
    I love you always.
    I am here for you just like you are here for me.
    Please be okay soon, I can't think of living without you :cry:
    We'll talk about it when you want to.
    Calm down and breath
    Deep breath.
    Close your eyes and fall asleep for a bit.

    Love you soooooo much :cry2: one million and one :lovehug: :hugs: :jumphug: :love: :heart: :penguinhug: :lovehug:
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    To the boy at the dodgems at Pleasure Beach today,

    You're cute.
    I'm sorry my siblings and I ganged up on you, but you asked for it in the first couple of games.

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    (Original post by CleverSquirrel)
    :hugs: i hope you're okay
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Dear you,

    Is duniya mein..

    Agar azaab hai to jannat bhi hai
    Agar dua maangne waale hai toh dua poore karne waale bhi hai
    Agar sarhadein hai toh khule raaste bhi hai.

    Lekin aapko pata hai ke in sarhado ko kya kehte hai?

    Darr.

    Lekin ye kaisa darr hai? Kis baat ka darr hai?

    Soch ke batana.

    Kyun ke is darr se azaad ho kar hi hum zindagi jee sakte hai.

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    If there is hell in this world, there's also heaven. If there are people who pray, then there are people who make prayers come true. If there are open doors, then there are also borders.

    Do you know the name for these borders? Fear.

    But what kind of fear is this? And a fear of what?

    Just try and think about it. We can only live life if we get rid of fear.


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    Dear you
    Bilkul saheeh baat.
    Darr. Darr ka bhi darr hai. Ab kaha jaaon?
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    (Original post by KittenMediaya)

    :console: I'm here.
    It's all gonna be okay. Shh
    Let me give you a big fat tight hug :jumphug: shh
    I've heard tears are prayers too. They travel to God when we can't speak.
    But you've cried enough, Inshallah those prayers get answered. Stop crying now
    Wipe those tear.
    Those tears are like pearls made of diamond for me.
    Don't waste them.
    They are precious just like you are, my lovely baaji
    I love you always.
    I am here for you just like you are here for me.
    Please be okay soon, I can't think of living without you :cry:
    We'll talk about it when you want to.
    Calm down and breath
    Deep breath.
    Close your eyes and fall asleep for a bit.

    Love you soooooo much :cry2: one million and one :lovehug: :hugs: :jumphug: :love: :heart: :penguinhug: :lovehug:
    :jumphug: back. Big fat tight and juicy jk.
    Tears dried up, dw. Slept and baked.
    Calmer now. Head hurts and I look a right mess.
    InshaAllah. I want nothing but mental peace. That's it. Idc how, but I need it soon. Think I've gone mental.
    Thanks for being here behenji. Read this before I slept. Made me feel better.
    Love you too.
    Going nowhere

    One million and one :hugs: :jumphug:and eveything back.
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    (Original post by starfab)
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    Dear you
    Bilkul saheeh baat.
    Darr. Darr ka bhi darr hai. Ab kaha jaaon?
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    Darr toh hum sabko lagta hai. Humko bhi lagta hai, har roz. Aap akele nahi ho.

    Khair, hum aapke sawal ka jawab dene ki koshish karte hai...

    Aksar ye hota hai ke hum apne guzre hue kal ki baatein apne aaj mein bhi zinda rakhte hai, ya phir unko rakhne ki majboori mehsoos karte hai. Aur in baaton se hi humara darr paida hota hai.

    Hum aisa kyun karte hai. Sab kuch bhoolna itna asaan kyun nahi hota?

    Actually, baat bhoolne ki nahi hai, baat pyaar ki hai.

    Aapke dil mein darr ne itni jaga le li hai ke shayad pyaar ke liye itni jaga nahi bachi. Aur isme aapki koi galti nahi hai.

    Phir bhi aapki zindagi mein aise log hai jo aapki bahut fikr karte hai aur aapse bahut pyar karte hai. Lekin aap unse hamesha kuch distance hi rakhte hai, jitne mein aapko lagta hai ke aap comfortable aur mehfooz reh sakte hai. You know, like a “safe space”. Aur ye bilkul normal hai.

    Lekin inke paas aap jab hote ho, ya phir jab aap inse baat kar rahe hote ho, toh aapka darr to kuch waqt ke liye khatam hi ho jata hai. Kuch waqt ke liye aapko nayi umeed bhi mil jati hai.

    Hai na?

    To phir darr se jeetne ke liye humko aisa hi karna chahiye na?

    Lekin ye raasta itna asaan bhi nahin hai. Aapko dard hoga, anjaani cheezon ka darr bhi mehsoos hoga, aap khud ko kamzor bhi mehsoos karoge, aapke aankhon mein aansu bhi ayenge, aur waqt bhi lagega.

    Lekin is raaste pe chalna bahut zaroori hota hai, kyu ke sirf pyaar hi dard ko nikal sakta hai. Humko bas usko aisa karne ka ek mauka dena parta hai.

    Aur iski shuruaat chhoti chhoti cheezon se karni chahiye. Kuch bhi sahi ya galat nahi hai - sab aapki marzi pe depend karta hai.

    And finally aapko ek baat yaad rakhni chahiye: is raaste pe koi akela nahin chalta. Kabhi nahi. Saara jahaan uske saath mil jaata hai, khuda bhi.


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    Everyone experiences fear, even me, on a daily basis. You’re not the only one.Anyway, I'll try my best to answer your question.

    But it’s often the case that we keep things from our past alive in our present, or insist on doing so. And that is what gives rise to fear.

    Why do we do that? Why isn’t it easy to forget?

    Actually it’s not about forgetting; it’s about love.

    Your heart has a limited amount of space, but most of it has been consumed by fear, and not much is left for love.

    And yet there are people in your life who love you and care about you a lot, but you always maintain a safe distance from them.

    However, when you’re around them, or you talk to them, doesn’t that fear just evaporate for a while? Don’t you just feel a renewed sense of hope for a while?

    So isn’t this what we should do to eliminate our fear? Yes.

    However, it’s not easy. You will feel pain, experience fear, feel weak, cry, and it will take time.

    At the same time, it is necessary. Because only love can drive out that fear from our hearts, but only if we give it a chance to.

    And you should remember one thing: no one ever walks alone on this path, never. The whole universe unites with them, even God.
 
 
 
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