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    Turns out my crush really likes me back. After a class today she asked what I was doing this weekend (i. e that she wanted us to go out) and I stupidly said "Oh, nothing, just going home to see my family". She went "Oh! well see you later" and apparently she's been crying...

    I don't know why I didn't figure out she wanted us to go out on the spot... it took me a couple of hours to realise.

    What should I do?
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    She sounds incredibly immature if she's crying because you went to see your family. I ask people what they're doing this weekend because I'm curious, so it's not your fault you didn't realise it was a date.
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    Get her alone and/or explain exactly what's happened, say 'I am such a doofus (not that you are one, just I s'pose it would help...)
    and I'd love to go out with you... what's (insert free time here) looking like?'

    It's risky though, she could have been crying about something else. Equally, it could've been a hint or cue for asking her out but.. :dontknow:
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Turns out my crush really likes me back. After a class today she asked what I was doing this weekend (i. e that she wanted us to go out) and I stupidly said "Oh, nothing, just going home to see my family". She went "Oh! well see you later" and apparently she's been crying...

    I don't know why I didn't figure out she wanted us to go out on the spot... it took me a couple of hours to realise.

    What should I do?
    'Seppuku' is the only right course of action in this situation.
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    Is that how people ask each other out on a date? SO INDIRECT.
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    (Original post by Andy98)
    Send her my way
    haha thirsty
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    Wait is that what this means? Oh I might have broken a few hearts
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    (Original post by mkap)
    haha thirsty
    I take what I can get
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Turns out my crush really likes me back. After a class today she asked what I was doing this weekend (i. e that she wanted us to go out) and I stupidly said "Oh, nothing, just going home to see my family". She went "Oh! well see you later" and apparently she's been crying...

    I don't know why I didn't figure out she wanted us to go out on the spot... it took me a couple of hours to realise.

    What should I do?
    Just ask her whether she would like to do anything next weekend if she is free.
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    (Original post by Andy98)
    I take what I can get
    haha funny
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    (Original post by mkap)
    haha funny
    Glad someone enjoys it :sigh:
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    (Original post by Andy98)
    Glad someone enjoys it :sigh:
    i didn't mean it in a nasty way, i thought it was a joke. sorry if i offended you
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    (Original post by mkap)
    i didn't mean it in a nasty way, i thought it was a joke. sorry if i offended you
    It's ok
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    Also could you not use the word crush cmon your a man
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    (Original post by Diabolus)
    'Seppuku' is the only right course of action in this situation.
    Why would a Japanese ritualistic suicide be the only right course of action?
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    (Original post by Kalail)
    Why would a Japanese ritualistic suicide be the only right course of action?
    *wooooooosh*

    That's the sound of the joke going over your head
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    (Original post by Diabolus)
    *wooooooosh*

    That's the sound of the joke going over your head
    I got the joke, I just wanted to know the logic behind it
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