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    So, a couple of months ago, I started talking to this boy, but he had just got out of a relationship. A couple of weeks went by and things were going fine, but then suddenly he broke it off and got back with his ex girlfriend.

    About 2 months ago, they broke up again, and this time after a month, we started talking again and now we have been together a few weeks. Obviously I had to be cautious, but things have got to a stage where I believe truly he's not in love with her anymore.

    My issue is that his ex still owes him a significant amount of money, and so he can't cut off contact with her for the risk of loosing that money as he is depending upon it. He promises me I have nothing to worry about with her, but I can't help but be slightly afraid because of how much he hurt me last time. He also guarantees that his feelings for her have gone, but I'm afraid that him seeing her will bring them back.. can that happen?

    Also, every time he's gone to see her I've gone with him, because he understands how I feel about it.. but today we saw her at college and I had to go to class so he walked home with her... I'm just so afraid of them being alone together.. I trust him, but I don't trust her, but how can I explain this to him without seeming controlling or causing an argument?
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    It does sound like to me despite what he says, that he is not actually over her yet
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