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    Me and my girlfriend have been together for about a month. But she doesn't respond to my messages in a timely manner, if at all. It can be several days before she replies/we talk, and it started like this recently. Even now, i'm waiting for a response from where I asked to meet her over the weekend which I sent days ago. I know she's online and active (Facebook) as she likes/comments on things. She also seems to avoid meeting up, only lately though. She says she loves me and she's interested but she very clearly isn't showing it.

    I bought this matter up with her, and (when I got a reply) she assured me we wanted the same thing as I, etc. I've also done the 'waiting' game to see if she's interested and she did reply. is She explained to me that she was going through a rough time. I've helped her through that and it's now over, but nothing's really changed. I'm getting serious mixed feelings this far into a relationship which isn't good at all.

    I don't know what to do or think, really. Could you guys help me
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    I don't think she is that interested, mate.
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    (Original post by SpiritSharD)
    I don't think she is that interested, mate.
    It would seem that way, but I really don't know. I don't want to break it off with her just in case she is. I have very strong feelings for her :/
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    It's only been a month, she doesn't truly love you after such a short period. Either she's not that into you or she is one of those people that is bad at replying and doesn't treat replying to her boyfriend (you) as a priority. You either suck it up and deal with her being difficult to communicate with (a fundamental part of being in a relationship) or you dump her. I would dump her.
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    I would leave her if I were you.

    Communication is literally the most important aspect of a solid relationship. She doesn't treat you like you matter, dont waste your time with someone like that.
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    OP..she saying she is interested is one thing, but if she isn't showing it...then who's to say she is interested? For all you know, she's delaying responding to your "let's hang out this weekend" text because she is waiting for a better offer to come along with her friends.

    I'd say end it. It's only been a month, so it won't take too long to get over. But there's no point being in a relationship where you don't feel wanted.
 
 
 
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