They say it's like I'm not bothered about them anymore. I never go out anymore, I never hang round with them anymore. Thing is before I was in a relationship I hardly hang round with them anyway because I was always at work and I didn't want to go out every weekend. It's like I can't have a relationship because they don't approve of it. They always say horrible things and it's not even messing around they actually mean what they say. Just getting on my nerves because I hardly hang round with before and whenever they get girlfriends they are the same and never do anything but because it's me it's different.
Sick of my friends saying that I've changed because I'm in a relationship? Watch
- Thread Starter
- 04-02-2016 23:43
- 04-02-2016 23:52
Ignore them. I can't say I've had this but I've heard it plenty of times; live the life you want to live, and if that means spending more time with your partner then so be it.
- 04-02-2016 23:54
Well, they're not your friends then. **** 'em.
- 04-02-2016 23:55
You should do what makes you happy, but accept that your friends might possibly have a point. Some people really do start to lose sense of their friends (detach) once they get into a relationship and it is *****y to be in that position and watch a good friend leave.
Though based on what you've said they don't sound like nice friends in the first place...